In Celebration of

Mary Caroline Kadar Pidgeon, aka Tante

December 5, 1929 -  February 20, 2026

Mary Pidgeon was born Maria Caroline Kadar in Montreal on 5 December 1929.

Mary was the third child of Laszlo--sometimes called Vasil--Kadar, and Maria—sometimes called Marketa--Balczerovics, and the first born in Canada. Mary was predeceased by her parents and her siblings: Joseph (Helen) and Leslie (Eleanor).

Mary married the love of her life in Toronto on 5 December 1953, Arthur Charles Pidgeon, a decorated World War Two veteran. Mary and Art met on the dance floor and together they danced the city--Two-Step, Cha-Cha, waltz, jive, you name it. Most weekends they danced with friends either at the glorious Palais Royale at the foot of Roncesvalles Avenue on Lake Ontario, or the similarly glorious Palace Pier, also on the shores of Lake Ontario adjacent to the mouth of the Humber River. Mary and Art danced together late into their life together, always a joy to watch.

Mary worked for over 25 years as a lab technician at Litton Systems, as smooth with a microscope as she was on the dance floor. You can see how intricate the work is in the photograph above. Because of her training at Litton’s, she could fix anything small.

Mary and Art treated Mary’s niece, Marlene Kadar (Gary Penner), and nephew, Elliott Joseph Kadar, as their own kids. Marlene and Elliott regularly spent weekends at Mary and Art’s house. Mary was a great cook. She would make favourite Hungarian dishes for “her kids”—paprikash anything, stuffed peppers, and lecsó, sometimes with eggs.

Mary and Art made many good friends in the neighbourhood, some of whom are still there.
Mary has been affectionately called “Tante” by her family since 1965. Although she is technically the grand aunt of Jacob Elliott Kadar Penner and Emma Kadar Penner (Jayson Green), they think of her as their grandmother.

After Art’s passing in 2016 “Tante” moved into the Tapestry Retirement Home, now known as Delmanor West Village, where she lived independently until just a few weeks before her death. She was a fixture in the Delmanor community, keeping everyone on their toes with her sharp wit and engaging nature. Like her own mother, she took up painting to great affect her paintings were often on display on the walls of the retirement community. She is dearly missed by the devoted staff and the many friends she made at Delmanor.

Special thanks to Dr. Lehnert and Dr. Ghumman and the dedicated 4 th floor nursing staff at St. Joseph’s Health Centre in Toronto. Together they kept Mary comfortable in her last days.

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As per Mary’s request there will be no funeral. However, guests are welcome at her interment, beside her beloved Art, on Friday, February 27, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at St. John’s Dixie Cemetery, 737 Dundas St East, Mississauga.

Guestbook 

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ron and yvonne singer (friend)

Entered February 25, 2026 from toronto

Ron and I send our condolences to Marlene Kadar, Gary Penner, Emma, Jay, Jacob. Tante was much loved and lovingly cared for.
Ron and will always fondly remember her warmth and friendship.

Emma (family)

Entered February 26, 2026

A beautiful life well lived. We miss you always and forever, Tante.

Trish Stevens (Friend)

Entered February 26, 2026 from Delmanor West Village

On behalf of Delmanor West Village, please accept our deepest condolences for your loss.
Mary was a cherished member of our community. She was spirited, funny, delightfully sarcastic, and always ready for a good laugh. Her presence brought warmth and energy into every room she entered.
Being a part of her life’s journey has made a meaningful impact on each one of us here. We will miss seeing her at breakfast and sharing moments together in art class. Her beautiful artwork will continue to be displayed throughout our community, a lasting reminder of her creativity, character, and the joy she brought to others.
Mary’s spirit will be felt here always, and she will be deeply missed.

Adriana Prata (Friend)

Entered February 26, 2026 from Toronto

Heartfelt condolences to the family & friends. Mary was such a special person who will not be easily forgotten. Mary & I quickly became friends when we first met at Tapestry.
We shared a number of great meals, a lot of Montreal smoked meat. She was very insightful on a number of topics & I often sought her counsel.

Marlene (Niece)

Entered April 6, 2026 from Toronto

Tante, every day brings on a new memory, and a new tear: from trips to Costco to holding your mother's little boxed bible. I love you and miss you very much.

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