In Celebration of

William J. Parker, Q.C.

March 29, 1938 -  May 2, 2021

Bill Parker was born in Toronto 1938 to parents Bill and Winnifred Parker and older sister Shirley. He grew up in the Stanley Park area of Toronto with many friends who he has remained friends with to this day.
He attended Niagara Street Public School and Central Technical High School. He helped his Uncle Ben sell newspapers at Queen and Bathurst Streets as a boy for 5 cents a paper and got street smart. While in High School he joined the Toronto Harbour Police for summers and learned about boating law, lifesaving, and life on the water and under it. With instructions in printing, he set off to Banff Springs Hotel to print their menus for a time. Then to the Ontario Provincial Police in Wawa to learn the ways of Law & Order and Northern Ontario life. Another change of direction led back to post-secondary education at McMaster University in Hamilton to become an English teacher with side courses in Phys Ed or History. His first posting was to Grand Valley High School at which time he met Lesley and they were married in 1963. He took another posting at Streetsville High School which precipitated a return to University at U of Toronto to study Law and then Osgoode Hall to study for the Bar. He worked for several years with the Department of Criminal Appeals and Special Prosecutions where he made a great impression on lawyers, judges and criminals, or something like. Discontent again, he went into private practice to help the underdog. He worked for many years as a Barrister and Solicitor, always available to help those with problems. He was well-respected by his peers, the legal community, judges, and clients.
Bill became a dedicated member of the National Club, where his mother worked as a waitress for many years. It was a particularly proud moment for both his mother and himself when Bill became a member. He remained a lifetime member until his death.
Following a catastrophic car accident in 2007, Bill put his mind, focus and efforts toward his rehabilitation and physical healing and was able to walk, work and live an independent life again.
He was always happy spending time with his grandchildren and children, telling stories, giving instruction and support, and always ready to help, comfort and encourage.
Following his father’s death in 1993 Bill took over the responsibility and care of his parents’ Osprey Township rural property. The farm was initially a labour of love for Bill as he balanced a busy career and family life with the care and stewardship of the property. He grew to love the farm, farming community and both the social life of Grey County and the Kinsmen, as well as the quiet solitude of country living.
His diagnosis of terminal cancer in December 2020 was the beginning of a rapid physical decline which was met with Bill’s self-same commitment to living each day to the fullest of his ability. He took the inescapable element of his illness with grace, courage, and strength. He rallied for a portion of the late winter, sharing cherished time and classic stoic outlook with loved ones. The last month was a peaceful winding down of a life well-loved and lived. Lesley and Katherine were tireless and exemplary, experienced caregivers that Bill was grateful for beyond measure. Christopher, Elizabeth and Jesse visited regularly, and grandchildren shared cherished times. His last birthday spent in Prince Edward County was a particular blessing and his last visit to Grey County when all the children surprised Lesley for her 79th Birthday will be seen as a true gift. Bill died peacefully at home in his sleep in the wee hours of Sunday morning.

As is permitted at this time, an intimate 10 person service will be held to honour Bill’s life and lay him to rest.

Wednesday May 12th, 2021 1:00 pm at Turner and Porter Yorke Chapel

The service will be attended by his wife, 4 children and 5 eldest grandchildren. In order to have the permitted 10 attendees there will be no minister in attendance but rather the service will be officiated by his family.

If not for these unique times all would be welcome. The family extends their gratitude for Bill’s family and friends who are thinking of him and them at this time. They are thinking of you all.

A memorial service will be planned for a future day.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Feversham & District Kinsmen, Box 16, Feversham, ON N0C 1C0 President Kim Mullin, 705-606-0438 or cggpm@hotmail.com

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Grace Ann Koehler (Friend)

Entered May 4, 2021 from BAYFIELD

Dear Lesley and your family,

Thinking of you & your family at this time. We send our sincere sympathy to you. May your memories comfort you and bring peace to you.

With love from Liz & Grace Koehler

Don Fisher (Friend)

Entered May 4, 2021 from Toronto

RIP Councelour

Luana DiCandia and Paul Drumonde (Neighbour)

Entered May 5, 2021 from Waller Avenue, Toronto

Our heartfelt condolences to the Parker family. Bill had an extraordinary life and his legacy lives on through his children and grandchildren, some of whom have become our close friends here on Waller Avenue.

Jim Regan (Great Fan of such a distinguished Gentleman !!!)

Entered May 5, 2021 from Oakville, Ontario

I was introduced to William Parker QC by the late Alan Mintz when both were practicing Criminal Defence work with offices at the Sheraton Centre I would say in the late 80’s or thereabouts! I was acTeacher with the a Toronto Board Education and so impressed with his outgoing and gracious disposition! What a kind soft heart and gracious smile with a laugh that filled the room!! Over the years thanks to Bob McGee I was able to develop a friendship and was almost a paying client but nothing materialized!!! A significant loss to the Legal fraternity throughout Ontario. Sincere condolences to the entire family loved by Mr. Parker QC! God Bless.

Richard Kuzyk (Friend)

Entered May 5, 2021 from Innisfil

My deepest sympathies go out to you Lesley, Katherine, Elizabeth, Jesse, Christopher and Shirley.

First thing comes to mind is the smile and giggle that we all loved, the generous willingness to help others, a very kind man known to me as Mr. Parker.

May God give you all the peace that you seek.

Love Richard (Ricky) and Jacquie

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Elizabeth Parker (Daughter)

Entered May 7, 2021 from Hamilton

Dad lost a number of very good friends at earlier ages than one would ever want to have a friend depart.

While sifting through some of Dad's writings these past few days I came across this poem and have reproduced it as found on a typed sheet.

Robert Greig September 19, 1992

To lose a loving friend at once
Is harsh and sad; so harsh that life itself
Seems cruel and steels the causes of all joy:
When one so dear and good is snatched up from
This sordid earth. Whose life just now was blessed
With richly earned rewards for his devoted works.
He will not sit to hear his chirdrens’ children laugh
Nor will he sit to gaze on passing days
Nor listen for the still sweet notes of hope
Nor watch his loved ones ripen into age
But in the darkness of forever dwell.

Can this be so? That such a life as his
Can cease to be and leave behind but pain
And wanton greif; our lot who think of him?
Can we not know his bright infectious smile
The voice so quick to laugh, the eyes to shine;
Can we still feel his stronger hand
Of friendship and of love stretched ever out
To all without a thought of a return;
A selfless, caring hand. Can we still feel?

For if we can – and my heart knows we can
Then just to be a person his life touched
Is balm to ease the pain his death has brought
And balm to help us keep our lonely way.

Pass on dear friend and know we think of you
In sad and happy thoughts, as lovers do.
And you will think of us with thoughts subline
Who need your love for now and for all time

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