In Celebration of

Victoria Elizabeth Mercer

August 14, 1996 -  April 24, 2021

It is with great sadness that the family of Victoria Elizabeth Mercer announces her passing on Saturday, April 24, 2021. Victoria passed from SUDEP (Sudden Unexpected Death in Epilepsy) early in the morning. She was taken from us immediately without fear or pain.

Victoria leaves behind her mother Carol Mercer (nee Ahamad), father John Mercer, and brothers Eric and Grant Mercer. Victoria had a huge family who loved her immensely.

Some people knew her as Victoria, Vicky or Vic. At home she was just our beautiful quirky Vicky. Her laughter was contagious. She had the ability to put anyone at ease and make him or her feel very comfortable. Vicky loved the outdoors, and going on outdoor adventures. She enjoyed camping, sitting with her friends and family laughing and telling stories. Even though she was severely allergic to most animals, she just couldn’t stop herself from petting and cuddling them. Hives and Benadryl would follow but she just didn’t care. She was obsessed with horses and strangely, did not have an allergy to them. She started horseback riding as a tiny child. She lived to muck out stalls even in the bitter cold of winter just so she could be close to her beloved horses. She was somewhat of a horse whisperer.

The relationship she had with her brothers, Eric and Grant, was not like any other. She loved them with her whole heart and she often said they were the best big brothers in the world…. except when they ganged up against her. If you were fortunate enough to be Vicky’s friend, you knew she was fiercely loyal and gave you her complete uninterrupted focus. Even if she had only known you for a short time, you were her “good friend.” Our apartment was an eruption of constant Face time conversations with friends and family, peels of laughter, blasting music, dancing…. Vicky had strange dance moves but she loved to dance. Her most recent obsession was binge watching the show, Game of Thrones. She had just finished watching the series and complained vehemently about the ending, but still loved the series.

Victoria had just graduated with honors from the Graphic Design program at George Brown College. She spent a short 8 months working as a designer at Stinson Design, where she was quickly becoming integral to her colleagues and clients. Victoria loved to draw, paint, doodle, sculpt, take photographs, and express herself through many other forms of art. She was a kind, creative, passionate, and a caring person who lit up any room she entered.

When you think of Vicky, celebrate the good memories you have of her. Remember that life is fragile and short and should be lived to the fullest, as she did, illnesses and all. Heaven has gained the most precious angel who has left us all wanting just one more radiant smile and one more of her best hugs. Vicky, your love and joy will fill all of Heaven. We love you and miss you. A private family service will be held on Saturday, May 1, 2021 with interment to follow at Westminster Cemetery. For those who wish to participate via livestream a link will be posted. As an expression of sympathy please consider a donation to Epilepsy Canada or by sending a floral tribute.

Livestream Link: https://youtu.be/3TWOrG_jVXQ

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Donna and Kaelan Karjalainen (Friend of Carol Mercer)

Entered April 30, 2021 from 1383 Bayview Ave #6, East York, M4G3A5

Our love and condolences to the family.

Colin Mcintyre 

Entered April 30, 2021 from Toronto

Dear Vic,

Thank you for being you. From the second you walked into a room you brought an indescribable energy and positivity with you, and every person you met took a bit of that with them. You thought of others first, loved unconditionally, battled through hard times and were the most joyful in good times.

Life is unfair and you are the last person that deserved to live such a short life. I can tell you that the lessons and impact you had in that time will live on forever in the people you loved.

I cherish the memories and moments I shared with you. I am so lucky to have gotten the chance to grow so close to you over the past year.

Until we meet again, I hope your up there doing something you love. Love and missing you always. Thank you Vic. Rest easy ❤️

Pat Parisi (Teacher and friend)

Entered April 30, 2021

I was so deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Victoria. She was a wonderful girl who brightened every class she was in and graced every person with whom she came in contact.

Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends at this most challenging time.

The world is a darker place without Victoria. As D.H. Lawrence once said, “The dead are not gone, they just help from a different place.” There is a new angel in heaven who will be helping all of us because that is the way Victoria was with us during her brief time here on earth.

In sympathy and love,
PdP

Wendy Reed (Family friend)

Entered April 30, 2021 from Toronto

Carol, Eric, Grant, John, there are just no words. My thoughts are with you always. With great love and sympathy, Wendy Reed

Yiota Arvanitakis (teacher)

Entered April 30, 2021 from Toronto

My heartfelt condolences to the entire Mercer family. Victoria was a beautiful person whose smile could light up a room. I remember her great sense of humour, how her whole face would change when she got excited about a concept discussed in class and her incredible school spirit! May her memory be eternal.

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