In Celebration of

Terrence "Terry" Michael Maccagno

June 9, 1962 -  August 25, 2024


Terrence "Terry" Michael Maccagno
June 9, 1962 - August 25, 2024
It is with deep sadness that we announce the death of Terrence "Terry" Michael Maccagno. Terry was only 62 years old when he left us on August 25, 2024, in Lac la Biche, Alberta.

Terry was born in Edmonton on June 9, 1962, to Tom and Annette. He was the elder brother of Morris, Michelle, and Marc. He died where he spent his childhood summers, at the family cabin in Lac la Biche. Like his father Tom, who predeceased him in 2012, Terry loved swimming, canoeing and water-skiing in the lake, fishing, and capturing the beauty of nature through the lens of his camera.

Terry was a brilliant student, graduating as a metallurgical engineer from the University of Alberta in 1984 with a gold medal. He received the Edmonton Churchill Scholarship and several other awards to complete a PhD at Cambridge University. It was there that he met Aparna Sundar, who would become his beloved wife. After receiving his doctorate in 1988, he returned to Canada to take up a position with the National Research Council in Ottawa. He moved to the Department of Mining and Metallurgical Sciences at McGill University when Aparna came to McGill to do her master’s, and lived in Montreal for several years. In 1997, he moved to the University of Alberta to become an Assistant Professor of Materials Engineering and NSERC / TCPL Junior Industrial Research Chair in Pipeline Materials. It was there that he decided he did not enjoy the stressful and competitive nature of academia and transitioned into his new career in IT infrastructure. In 1998, he joined Compugen Systems Inc, and remained with them until his death.

Terry and Aparna were married in May 2000 in Toronto. Their daughter Rosa was born in 2001 and their son Ilan in 2005. Terry lived in Toronto for the rest of his life, except for the two years the family spent in Bangalore, India, where he worked with Tata Consultancy Services. Those were memorable years – spending time with Aparna’s parents and relatives, travelling to the Himalayas and the coasts, car trips to the hills, forests, and historic sites in the south, bird watching in Bangalore’s parks and lakes, and making new friends.

In Toronto, Terry was a steady part of a close group of friends, taking interest in his friends’ children along with his own. He enjoyed his neighborhood of Parkdale-High Park, where he could go walking or cycling in the park or along the lake. In the last few years, he loved to be out with his canoe, on the Humber River or exploring shorelines along the lake. From March 2020 on, he worked entirely from home, and became the most reliable companion to the family’s cat Kaju, who is still waiting for him to return. He read widely and kept up the appreciation for good films developed at Cambridge. He had an excellent memory and could hold a conversation on all kinds of things, from science, history and politics, to films, but was always happiest listening when others spoke. Terry was a wonderful father, husband, son, brother, son- and brother-in-law, and friend. He was a kind man and was never judgmental or critical of others. He was always even tempered and sweet. His warmth and generosity were remarked upon by all whose paths crossed his. He had a great sense of humour and fun, and an equally strong work ethic and sense of responsibility. We are so grateful that the last weeks of his life were spent travelling with his kids and enjoying time on the water.

Terry did not enjoy being the center of attention and never wanted big celebrations for himself, even for landmark birthdays. But we who love him, and there are many of us, want to celebrate his life and what he meant for us.

Please join us for a celebration of Terry’s life:
Thursday, September 5, 2024
5:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m.

Roncesvalles United Church
240 Roncesvalles Avenue
Toronto, ON M6R 1L3

For livestreaming, click on the Livestream link below. Zoom passcode is f4rmqh

For more information, contact: rosa.nalini2627@yahoo.com / sgururani@gmail.com

Guestbook 

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Tara (Family Friend)

Entered September 1, 2024 from New York City

I remember meeting Terry throughout my childhood when I’d have the pleasure of seeing Rosa and Ilan. He was such a fun spirited human who had so much to talk about and so many jokes to make. Although he is no longer with us, I hope to meet him again and will always carry my memories of him wherever I go! Sending love to all of you.

Dilip Menon (Studied with Nandini at Oxford and with Aparna and Terry at Cambridge. Terry and I were born a day apart; I am elder to him by a day.)

Entered September 1, 2024 from South Africa

Terry and Aparna were an intimate part of my graduate life at Cambridge. Terry was a warm, affectionate, and wry presence; never overbearing and always easy to be with and talk to. He had a dry sense of humour which would be matched by a low laugh and that lovely twinkle in his blue blue eyes. He was completely enamoured of Aparna and thats how I always thought of them as Terryaparna. He taught us all poker, in his inimitable patient way and we built up several yoghourt containers worth of pennies. to bet with. And I taught poker to my children and whenever we play, there is a Terry story to tell. Heavens a better place with Terry there;

Veeresh Bahadur (Aparna’s childhood friend.)

Entered September 1, 2024 from India

May you rest in peace. Om Shanti ☮️

TC Narayan (Vicarious)

Entered September 2, 2024 from Bangalore India

Cannot claim to know him at all, may have met him once during his term in India. BUT I have known Aparna and her family for more than fifty years and got to really love them. Terry's picture reflects all the qualities attributed to him -pleasant, warm, bright and handsome. One cannot really share the pain that his loss has caused to the family but I do hope and pray that they have within them the strength to find peace of mind.

Pushpa Sundar (Mother-in-law)

Entered September 3, 2024 from New Delhi, India

My first meeting with Terry was not with the man but with his shoes. One morning when I woke up and looked at the front door of our flat in London’s Riverside Drive, I saw a large pair of shoes just inside the door. As I was wondering whose they could be, I saw a tall, handsome young man emerge out of the guest room and was introduced to my future son in law- Terry!

When we asked Aparna why Terry? (this was before we knew him at all) she said he was such a Hunko! To my generation of Indians this was an unknown word which needed explanation. And what she offered was actually a very correct description of Terry- that he was a tall, well built, handsome young man who was also brilliant to boot. What mattered to us as parents was not only that he was a Hunko but an extremely well mannered, considerate, well-educated and well-spoken young man, with a good future. We could not have found a better son-in-law had we searched for him ourselves.

Every time we went to Canada to stay with Aparna and Terry he drove us on marvelous trips to see the various lovely parts of Canada – Niagara Falls of course, but drives though the national parks, the lake district in the north and many many other places. We also visited Lac La Biche where Terry spent his childhood summers and had a great
time with his parents Tom and Anette who we had met earlier at Aparna and Terry’s wedding. Terry always looked after us so well, and our times with him will remain cherished memories.

Terry was a simple, affectionate, unostentatious person and one memory that always moves me is that when Rosa was born and we were taking her first photos, wrapped in an heirloom shawl, Terry felt that he needed to mark this as a special occasion, and he actually dressed up in a suit and tie for the photo. Those who knew Terry, and that he hated formal clothes, and was always dressed casually, will realise what a special gesture this was!

Now only such memories remain and the man who occasioned these reminiscences is gone. But only physically. He will be forever in our hearts, minds, and memories.

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