In Celebration of

Shirley Gretchen Kerr (nee Eckel)

February 3, 1932 -  November 1, 2023

Shirley died peacefully at home on November 1st at the age of 91 with her children, Gretchen (Walt), Chris (Lynne), Beth, and Tom (Eugenia), by her side. Beloved wife of Dr. William Kerr (predeceased 1975), grandmother of Hudson, Ben, Madison, Alizah, Lauren (“Bobbie”), Jack, Sophie, and Elena. Born and raised in Toronto, Shirley became known locally in her teenage years as a track and field star. At the age of 12, she placed fourth internationally in the 50 metre hurdles and, at 15, won a gold medal at the junior Olympics. She went on to set the Canadian record in the 80 and 90 metre hurdles, earned a spot at the 1952 Olympic Games in Helsinki, and was fifth at the 1954 British Empire and Commonwealth Games. In 1952, she was honored with the Norman Craig Memorial Trophy as the country’s most outstanding woman athlete. A graduate of Humberside Collegiate where she met her future husband, Bill Kerr, both Shirley and Bill attended the University of Toronto. In addition to her studies and athletic training, Shirley was the Drum Majorette, leading the marching band into Varsity Stadium before football games. Shirley earned a B.A. in Psychology and later returned to complete a Masters in Education after Bill’s passing. She used her psychology training to work as a psychometrist at the former Thistletown Regional Centre, a mental health facility for children and adolescents.

Shirley’s successes in athletics and academics were exceeded by her greatest passion and achievement as a mother to her four children as well as to many of her children’s friends who knew her as the mom with an open heart and mind. As a mother, she overcame insurmountable grief to provide her children with a full, exciting upbringing. She gave constant support and acceptance and there was never a day we did not feel her unconditional love. Her caring, empathic, fun, and colourful nature was known to all who met her. Shirley was fiercely independent, ahead of her time as a feminist. No problem was too large to be solved. Her resilience and independence characterized her life as she defied expert opinions that she was too short to hurdle, found herself as a single mother of four at the age of 42, did her own body work on her car, and used power tools in her 80s. A larger than life character, Shirley will be dearly missed by so many whose lives were touched by her.

We are indebted to the exceptional primary care provided to Shirley by Dr. Carol Deitcher for over 30 years, and most recently, to Dr. Alex Pan and the Temmy Latner Palliative Care Team who enabled Shirley to be cared for at home.

In recognition of Shirley’s life and contributions, donations are welcomed to a charity Shirley cared deeply about, Doctors without Borders https://www.doctorswithoutborders.ca.

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Don and Ana Silva (Friend)

Entered November 10, 2023 from OAKVILLE

Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. RIP

Matthew Luke (Family)

Entered November 10, 2023 from Bridgewater Nova Scotia

Shirley is someone who I always considered to be a treat to be around. My time with her was short relative to the grand story of her life but it was no less impactful to me as she had so much to say and contrast to my own rather inexperienced world view. I'm happy to have known her and I will keep those memories with me for the rest of my life.

James luke 

Entered November 10, 2023

She will live on in the heart of her loved ones

Gerald Kiersnowski (Friend)

Entered November 10, 2023 from Toronto

Words seem inadequate to express our sadness over the passing of your mom. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Vicki & Eugene (Friend)

Entered November 11, 2023 from Mississauga

Although we did not know Shirley, she sounds like an incredible force, who lived well and fully, with courage and fortitude, wrapped in love and passion. A life truly "lived to the max". Yet side by side, along with those memories and gratitude, is the overwhelming grief of losing a parent. May you let the sadness of her passing be accompanied by the warm comfort of knowing that you don’t leave her behind, rather you take her with you, for her love is in your heart, and her spirit is in your soul. Each time that you embrace life, dive in with abandonment, and smile in the face of adversity, you honour her life, and her importance to your life. Our sincere condolences to you all. Vicki & Eugene xo

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