In Celebration of

Richard Lacey

January 4, 1984 -  October 13, 2023

Five year old William Lacey, said: "Dad (Richard) was so brave and strong, he can’t die now.” Richard was brave and strong and passionate about life. He loved life but struggled with it in different ways for many years. The illness stayed pretty well hidden and the Richard people knew was smart, lots of fun with a quirky sense of humour. He was playful, interested and inquisitive about many aspects of this world, very insightful and serious about the environmental crises.

Richard was born in St. John’s, Newfoundland and very proud of that Newfoundland heritage which he received from his grandfather Frank. His parents, Lawrence Lacey and Anne Shirley Sutherland had roots in most of the Atlantic provinces but Prince Edward Island was his second home. In summers, he farmed with his Uncle John Sutherland and made biscuits with Nannie.

Our family relocated to Toronto when Richard was in grade 6. He loved Toronto and eventually found love there with Ashley Beech. They gave birth to William Archer (5) and Penelope Quinn (3). They were the love of his life and he also loved being Uncle Dick to Emma and Ethan, children of his beloved sister Briana and her husband Kevin Louro. In his difficult years Briana (aka Bowser!) was his constant support and back up.

Richard, known for heading hockey pucks, 10 years of great Christmas parties and love for playing games like Chess, Catan and Zelda with friends. His gaming love he shared with his best friend Chris Simms of 36 years and his godson Jackson. Richard loved animals (including his dogs Lucky, Teddy, Cito, tarantula and ferret) and was passionate about so many things in nature, more recently as a minor farmer growing many things, orchards and honey bees. He absolutely loved his life in Solina.

Richard has left too soon but we remember the things he loved, the people he loved know who we are, his spirit and passions we will carry for the remainder of our days.

We invite you to join Richard's family to remember and share in memories of his life at RUNNYMEDE United Church (432 Runnymede Rd in Toronto) on Sunday November 12th at 2 pm EST.

LINK TO SERVICE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pW4NmIWixDU&ab_channel=RunnymedeUnitedChurchRUCservices

Internment to take place at a later date in Prince Edward Island.

Donations can be made to Gerstein Crisis Centre (click on Make a Donation at the bottom of the page) and family condolences can be made through turnerporter.ca.

Guestbook 

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Ruth Lacey (Paternal aunt)

Entered October 25, 2023 from PEI

Dear Richard--I remember your fun, your strength, your creativity and beautiful handwork, your friendship with Hugh, your coat of arms back-tattoo, your courage to take risks, your faithfulness and loyalty, our family gatherings around the table. I know you struggled more and more with internal forces greater than your own will until you simple could not bear it any more. You lived life fully and passionately and thoroughly until then. May your spirit rest peacefully and watch over those you love and care for.
Aunt Ruth

Jerome Pennell (Friend)

Entered October 25, 2023 from Birchy Lake, Newfoundland

My deepest condolences to the family.

Meghann Clarke Phillips (Friend of the family)

Entered October 25, 2023 from St. John's, Newfoundland

Sending you all lots of love from st. John's and keeping you and Richard in our thoughts.

Kaitlin de Graaf (Childhood friend)

Entered October 25, 2023 from Victoria, BC

I met Richard in grade 6 as he was the new kid in class. We were both mischievous rebels so it didn’t take long before we were 3-way calling and rolling around the neighbourhood in shopping carts. He was the only kid with a waterbed, a ferret and a drawer full of skittles, the only kid all-blue for grade 8 grad, and he was one of the few people I’ve ever met who could turn any boring day into an adventure filled one. And I nodded when he told me he was going to go by “Dick” now, because he was sort’ve was one. In the way that he said what he thought to your face and that could make a person uncomfortable. It also showed a boldness that is rare to see. All my fun stories from that age were because of Richard and the detergent in the fountain will go down in history. I hold onto these memories, listening to No Doubt as a tween, and others from when we were older and catching up at his annual Christmas parties. I think of him often as I’m chopping veggies on my beautiful cutting board and how he followed his passion after shop class (and our shop team!) ended. My heart aches for his family who will now miss his adventuresome zest for life, but I hope will be always inspired to make the most out of each moment. Lots of love to Ashley and the kids, Richard’s parents and sister.

Judy Shand (Friend)

Entered October 25, 2023 from Gatineau

Love never ends.
May deep peace and love surround and uphold you all.

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