In Celebration of

Paul Bernard Rolston

July 2, 1948 -  January 17, 2023


It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Paul Bernard Rolston January 17th 2023. Bernard, passed peacefully at home held by Monica, his wife of 47 years, and his children, Rashida and Imara. In his final days he often looked off and repeated “We had a great life”. We celebrate him, his life, and his laughter.

Bernard was born in Barbados to Carlton and Seleta Rolston and brothers Hugh and Andrew. He often spoke with great love and happiness about his early days pounding the pavement with his brothers and childhood friends in Birds River Gap and his early working years as an accountant at Fogarty’s in Bridgetown. Bernard was a storyteller and brought every memory of his life back home to life.

Bernard moved to Montreal, Canada in 1969 and joined the Taylor-Rolston family household where he was loved and cared for until he moved to Toronto. Bernard met his loving wife of 47 years in Montreal and they began their life Toronto. He joined the Federation of Women’s Teachers, that eventually became the Elementary Teachers Federation of Ontario in 1970 and worked there for 49 years. He almost never took a sick day and spoke with great admiration and pride about the many colleagues that became lifetime friends.

In his early years, you would find Bernard on a Saturday morning dressed in all white playing tennis with his close friends until the sun got too hot. Bernard made it a point to always check-in and pop-in on friends and family. At family get togethers his voice soared with stories and you couldn’t miss his loud and unique laughter. One of Bernard’s greatest legacies is the love and attention he gave to his family and friends throughout his life. He rarely missed a call and made sure not to miss the important moments.

As loud and laughter filled as Bernard could be he was also a quiet soul; attentive, watchful, and present.

Bernard continues to live on in the hearts and souls of family and friends. His legacy lives on in his wife Monica, his two children, Rashida Ayanna and Imara Ajani (Julie Ouellet) and his three granddaughters Aminata, Azana, and Ayanda whom he loved and cherished deeply. He is also survived by his two brothers Hugh and Andrew Rolston whom he loved dearly.

We will say goodbye and celebrate Bernard, Brother, Cousin, Husband, Dad, and Friend.
Family and Friends will be received at Turner and Porter Funeral Home, 2180 Hurontario St, Mississauga, on Monday, January 30th 4-8pm. The funeral service and reception will be held at St Hilda’s Anglican Church, 2353 Dufferin St, Toronto on Tuesday, January 31st at 11am. In lieu of flowers please send donations to St Hilda’s Anglican Church and the Canadian Cancer Society.

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Jo-Anne Alzner (friend)

Entered January 21, 2023 from Puslinch

We had some good times Bernard. All who knew you, knew you as a gentle and kind gentleman. My deepest condolences go out to your family who loved you so deeply. May you Rest in Paradise.

Michael Nurse (Friend)

Entered January 22, 2023 from Pickering

Bernard you will be sadly missed by Michael and Ann Nurse you were a man of integrity and dignity we had the pleasure of knowing you for many years and thoroughly enjoyed every moment your legacy will live on you have impacted a lot of our lives may you Rest In Peace condolences to the Rolston family

Enza Tiberi-Checchia (Nieghbours)

Entered January 22, 2023 from Georgina, ON

Monica, Rashida and Imara I am so very sorry for your loss. My condolences go out to you and your families. Reading about Bernard's life and how he chose to live it is was awe inspiring but certainly not surprising. As your neighbor, I knew Bernard to be a warm and thoughtful man. He always had an infectious and inviting smile and conversations always had a kind and grateful outlook. His stature as a deeply caring human being could be felt regardless of his humble and quiet demeanor. May the memories of him make your loss a little softer.

RIP Bernard

Tony & Heather Scavetta (Neighbour/Friend)

Entered January 22, 2023

We are sad to hear of Bernard's passing. He was a lovely man and a great neighbour on Chagall Court in Mississauga. We moved 20 years ago, but always treasured the time we spent together. Much love and hugs to the family. Unfortunately we are in Florida, or we would attend the funeral. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. We lost our daughter Elizabeth, 19 yrs ago, and know what loss feels like. Know that no one really dies but lives on in spirit. Keep talking to him - he hears you.

Gail Novack (Co-worker)

Entered January 23, 2023 from Mississauga

Bernard was the co-worker everyone wished they had. He never had a bad thing to say about anyone and was the first to help out when it was needed. He was a gentle soul and a true gentleman. My condolences to his family. Their are few people in the world who affect people in such a positive way and his loss will be greatly mourned.

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David G. Elcock (Friend)

Entered January 23, 2023 from Mississauga, Ontario

It's always hard to say goodbye to persons we have known, loved, shared memories, and greatly interacted with over the years. Thereby, Bernard’s passing doesn't make the burden of current loss any easier. He was the "ultimate gentleman"! Always immaculately attired, a broad smile, an infective laugh, and -above all, carried an extremely positive outlook about life in general. In the course any conversation, he held his own and his contribution was always invaluable. His thoughtful, attentive, calculating, and caring attitude will be sorely missed. On life’s stage he played his part. As he soars, may his soul now rest in eternal peace.

To Monica, Rashida and Imari and other members of the immediate and extended family circle and friends, do accept my profound sympathy. Treasure the valued memories of the past, thereby keeping him alive in your hearts. May the thought that others care help to lighten the burden of your loss.

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