In Celebration of

Norman Buckingham

November 18, 1922 -  February 4, 2021

Born November 18, 1922 in Stratford Ontario as an only child, Norm acquired self-sufficiency at an early age. His parents were coping with the depression, and let him spend summers on a cousin’s farm. He learned that if he told his parents he was on the farm or his cousin that he was home, this offered him unparalleled independence. He rode the rails out to B.C. and back more than once and said that the hobos always took care of him and other younger travelers. He learned to swim by jumping off one bridge over the Avon River and staying above water to the next one. He played Industrial League hockey and was fit and athletic all his life. Norm moved to Toronto to apprentice as a tool and die maker, and met the landlady’s daughter Helen, a fiery redhead who became the love of his life for over 60 years. He married her and became a wonderful dad to Jeffrey and Gordon. Gord predeceased him and he said, “No one should outlive a child, but I’m lucky to have had such a wonderful son.” He was also predeceased by his wife Helen, and daughter-in-law Joy (nee Myers). He will be deeply missed by daughter in law Sheila (nee Givens). When I recently spoke to him, he expressed his wish to be allowed to pass on without undue intervention because, “It really bugs me that I can’t do the things I like to do anymore”. Thanks to the great caregivers at Tapestry Retirement Residence who saw him through to the end. There will be no formal service, but please do something kind in his memory. Rest easy Dad.

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Carol Covell 

Entered February 6, 2021 from Vancouver

I fondly remember gatherings at Norm and Helen's home in Toronto overlooking the park and swimming pool. He was a gracious host and seemed to love social gatherings. Rest in peace, Norm. You will be missed by family and friends.

Mary N. MacInnis (None)

Entered February 7, 2021 from Ottawa

I’ve never reached out to people like this, who I don’t personally know... However, my husband and I were extremely moved by the beautifully written obituary for your father in the Globe and Mail. Your loving and genuine description of him painted such a clear picture of a smart and deeply caring man who went after what he wanted, needed and knew was good to live a fulfilled life. Your words captured the essence of how one should truly be remembered. No doubt he would be humbly proud of your heartfelt tribute. Our sincere sympathy to you and all who knew him.

Bart Campbell (Admirer)

Entered February 7, 2021 from Medicine Hat

I read the Globe and Mail every morning. I read Normans article. I really enjoyed catching a glimpse into Normans unparalleled independence! I wish I could have visited him in person. It would have been unforgettable to ask about his adventures riding the rails out to BC during the depression. I am positive Norman was a very unique and special person!

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