In Celebration of

Michael James Penman

April 16, 1949 -  March 29, 2025

Michael was respected and admired by all who knew him, he was a scholar (with grammatical neurosis!) whose wisdom extended far beyond books—he was a mentor, a coach, and a guiding light. With a sunny disposition that never wavered, no matter the circumstance, Michael uplifted those around him with kindness, wisdom, and infectious optimism. He helped so many of us become better people.

Michael excelled in school – he was in “gifted classes”, attended UTS, Trinity College (U of T), U of T Law School, and was called to the Bar in 1975. He had a brilliant mind, ever curious and wanting to learn more, especially regarding politics – there was nothing better than a lively discussion of the latest issues. However, his mother used to say that there was no point arguing with Michael – somehow he always won!

He earned his strong work ethic from his father, starting part-time at 14 at Brentwood Public Library during the winter months, then caddying at Islington Golf Club in the summers. He followed family footsteps at Kodak for university tuition, articled and was made partner at Fraser & Beatty and later at Blaney McMurtry, and was an influential member of the TAGLaw group.

Sports played an important role in his life. Both hockey and baseball provided him with yet another avenue to build friendships and develop skills. More importantly, they were bonds to family – his dad taking him to his hockey practices (goalies didn’t have to skate as much!), as he then took sons Rob and Cam to theirs, with Papa watching in the stands. Not only did he teach his sons to play and understand the game of hockey, he did that for many of their childhood friends. Michael received many honours and awards for his work and volunteering with the GTHL, OHF and Hockey Canada, including the OHF’s President’s Award and Hockey Canada’s Order of Merit. On the baseball side, he was among the original season ticket holders of the Toronto Blue Jays, organizing and managing a ticket group until recently – going to games with his dad, then his sons and his sister. The end of winter was not complete without a visit to Dunedin (Florida) to watch baseball spring training.

Michael loved to explore and travel, carrying on the tradition of family trips to Southampton (Ont) and Ogunquit (Maine), started by his parents and grandparents. These were his 2 happy places. In his 20’s and 30’s, he travelled all over Europe and saw the Australian Outback. And then on to summers with his children at Nor’loch Lodge on Lake of Bays. Later in life, with his loving wife Elizabeth- Vietnam, Cambodia, Scotland & Ireland, the Caribbean, and so many more places. Michael rode an elephant, took a sunrise hot air balloon ride over the Serengeti, and flew in an open cockpit biplane.

But what was most important to Michael were his family and his friends. He was a devoted son, an amazing big brother and much-admired cousin and nephew. He was a dedicated father who prioritized his kids happiness and a loving husband who enjoyed every moment of his renaissance with Elizabeth. He also had a sincere interest in all people, from the Blue Jays program seller at ball games all the way to titans of Canadian industry. Michael was great at making friends, but his true talent was for keeping and nurturing those friendships. Many of his closest date back to secondary school and the “European Odyssey”, as well as the Kappa Alpha fraternity and law school – none of which were yesterday!

The diagnosis of posterior cortical atrophy, a rare variant of Alzheimer’s disease, was accepted with grace and courage, as well as a desire to make the most of the time available. Guidance and support from Dr. Tang-Wai and Maria Martinez at the UHN Toronto Memory Clinic helped ease the journey. Special thanks go to the support team over the last several years: TJ, Andres and Guy. And most importantly, Norma and Colleen, who, with Elizabeth’s love and compassion, were able to provide a safe and comfortable final year at home.

Michael passed away peacefully under the superb care of Toronto Western Hospital, surrounded by family, listening to his favourite tunes, which of course included the Beach Boys and Kingston Trio. While he will be missed beyond measure, like his father, he has provided an exemplary role model for his children and grandchildren – big shoes to fill, indeed.

Lovingly remembered by his sister, Cynthea (Roman), beloved wife, Elizabeth, and their blended family of children and stepchildren, Rob (Nina), Cam (Jen), Sarah, Kevin (Lisa), Colin (Caitie), grandchildren Cleo, Myla, Fitz, Max and Kyle and the Ross, Speirs and Morrice family in Canada and Scotland.

Loved ones and friends are invited to say farewell, share memories and reminisce at a visitation at Turner & Porter Yorke Chapel, 2357 Bloor Street West at Windermere Avenue on Friday, April 4th, from 2-4pm and 6-9pm. In memory of Michael, donations would be appreciated by the family, supporting the Memory Clinic at UHN Foundation. Please visit UHNfoundation.ca/tribute. Select ‘as directed by next of kin/obituary’ when asked where to direct the gift. Or call 416-603-5300.

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John Wolf (Former Law Partner and Friend)

Entered April 1, 2025 from Toronto

Michael

I will miss our annual reunion visits in Southampton.

I wish you peace and serenity as you begin this next phase of your journey.

May you rest in God’s Peace.

Steven Jeffery (Ex-partner at Blaneys)

Entered April 1, 2025 from Scarborough

My condolences to Michael's family. Mike was a great and respected partner of mine at Blaneys for many years prior to his retirement. His friendliness and optimism were part of what made him so great. He will be missed.

John Polyzogopoulos (Friend)

Entered April 1, 2025 from Toronto

Farewell, Michael. Thank you for everything you did for me, teaching me the ropes, how to behave, but mostly just being my friend. Especially at the beginning, when I lost my father and I needed a father figure, you were there for me. I will always cherish our time together and our friendship. See you on the other side.

To Rob, Cam, Sarah and Elizabeth, my deepest condolences. I am sure you are proud of the father you had and the name he left you. Always remember and honour him and his memory. Elizabeth, thank you for loving and taking care of Michael during his most challenging times. You were a blessing to him and his family. JOHN

Steve and Pam Popoff (Friend)

Entered April 1, 2025 from Toronto

Where to begin? I (Steve) had the pleasure of being one of Michael's partners at Blaney McMurtry LLP. He and I joined Blaneys at the same time and had that and many other things in common, including Trinity College and Kappa Alpha (although Michael was there before me – sorry to highlight your age, old friend but I know you are having a bit of a laugh right now.) Pam and I were also fortunate to have been able to be with Michael and Elizabeth socially at TAG Alliances events and otherwise. I could go on and on about Michael's great qualities and I am seeing them outlined in emails of condolence from many of our TAG Alliances and Blaneys friends. (For once I am happy to have my email inbox jammed - it's great reading.) Everyone has very nice things to say about Michael and they are very well deserved. Common themes are: gentleman, patient, kind, a mentor and others - too many other good qualities to mention. No wonder he managed to find a great friend and spouse in Elizabeth. Michael, congratulations on a life well lived. It’s hard to believe that a goalie could be so loved. Our heartfelt condolences to your family. Pam and I will always remember your great laugh – it filled a room. We only wish we could have continued to hear it for longer. Safe travels old friend.

Gordon Schottlander (Friend)

Entered April 1, 2025 from Burlington

A wonderful friend!

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