In Celebration of

Lynn Gordon

February 28, 1922 -  February 1, 2017

The Life of Lynn Gordon

Lynn Gordon was born in Kamloops in February 28, 1922. The Gordon family were early European settlers in British Columbia arriving in the mid-1870's from Goderich Ontario. His father was the youngest of four brothers and arrived last in Kamloops in 1892 at the age of 21. He owned a furniture store on the main street of downtown Kamloops. Lynn’s parents married in 1918 and his Mum, Kathleen Gordon, moved out west from Toronto to join her new husband. She took great interest in art and studied at the Banff School of Fine Arts in the 1920's. She was acquainted with some of the Group of Seven painters and knew Emily Carr.

Lynn was a camp Counsellor at the YMCA Camp Elphinstone and spent many happy summers at Lake Shuswap, east of Kamloops. He began studies in Electrical Engineering at the University of Toronto in the early 40's completing his degree in the mid-40's and becoming a Professional Engineer.

He joined the Royal Canadian Navy in 1940 serving in the summer break from his studies. He was stationed on a ship accompanying convoys to the middle of the Atlantic bringing arms and food to support allied forces and people in Britain and Europe in the Second World War.

Lynn met Evelyn Mitchell in the early 1940’s as both were studying at the University of Toronto. In 1946, they got married. The next year they moved to their first house in Etobicoke at One Old Oak Road. Their first child Nancy was born that year as well. Their second child Michael was born in 1954. With a growing family, they moved to a larger home in 1955 several blocks away on Wimbleton Road.

Lynn was a Professional Electrical Engineer working for Ontario Hydro from 1946 - 1985 during a period when a significant amount of the electrical infrastructure serving the Province of Ontario was built. He supervised more than 100 professionals who were responsible for designing the transmission lines and transformer stations. When you are travelling through Ontario and spot some of this infrastructure, chances are that Lynn and his team designed it. Lynn took his son Mike on many tours of transformer and generating stations through out Ontario and was very proud of his work.

Lynn had a great love of carpentry and renovated the basement of their new home. He also designed and built a cottage in Muskoka in the late 1950's. He continued to build additions (with the help of family and friends) to the cottage until the early 1990's. Family summers were spent there and also at Evelyn’s parents' cottage on Georgian Bay.

Lynn loved children and was thrilled when his daughter Nancy gave birth to Sean Douglas in 1980 and Katie Douglas in 1983.

Lynn loved to garden and travel. Lynn and Eve took their children on a number of trips to places such as New York City, Montreal, the Maritimes, British Columbia, Virginia and Washington DC. With their children, they encouraged a love of travel, music, books, art and architecture and an interest in current affairs and politics. Lynn and Eve also travelled together to Britain, France, Spain, Switzerland, Austria, Germany, Russia, Egypt, Holland, Thailand, China, Japan, the United States and Mexico.

In the 1960’s Lynn’s cousin, Lester Pearson was Prime Minister of Canada. Lester knew Lynn by his first name having spent many family gatherings together and hosted the Gordon family in his office on Parliament Hill in Ottawa.

Eve developed ALS in 1982 and lived with the disease until her death in 1991. Lynn was a devoted care giver for her for nine years in their home. Shortly before she passed away, they moved to a new apartment on Aberfoyle Crescent overlooking Mimico Creek with a view of the Toronto skyline.

During the same period, Paul Barber, the husband of Maryon Barber passed away. The Barbers had been close friends of the Gordon family for many years. Eve and Maryon had been close friends since attending high school together in North Toronto and both attended the University of Toronto.

Lynn married Maryon Barber (who became Maryon Gordon) in 1992 at Islington United Church. It is remarkable that they found each other in a period when they would consider marrying again after losing, respectively, their wife and husband. They honeymooned in England with Maryon’s brother and his wife Audrey.

Lynn and Maryon were a very happy couple enjoying travels to many places including England to visit with Bruce, Terri and Gemma, Fort Myers to visit with Pete and Maria and Mexico to spend time with Lynn’s children, Nancy and Mike in Puerto Vallarta. They also travelled to Europe, Egypt, Madeira and the United States. They loved good food and wine and going out for a nice meal.

Lynn was very active as a volunteer. As a member of the Islington Kiwanis Club, he distributed oranges each Christmas to raise money for charity. Lynn was also one of the organizers of the Kiwanis Youth Music Festival. He was President of the Islington Kiwanis Club in 2013. Lynn served breakfast to elementary school children in North Etobicoke for many years. He also was a driver for meals on wheels for homebound seniors.

Lynn and Maryon shared a love of ‘cottaging’ spending time at each of the cottages in Muskoka and Lake Simcoe. In 2011, Lynn sold the cottage he built on Six Mile Channel in Muskoka. For the last decade they spent almost all of their summer cottage time at Lake Simcoe. They shared a lovely daily routine – 8 am breakfast on the east Verandah, followed by reading the Globe and Mail, a nap, lunch at noon, then a nap, often followed by a swim, a glass of Scotch while watching the news, dinner in the dining room and a glass of port while watching the sunset together.

Likely, amongst the happiest memories people had of Lynn was visiting with him and Maryon at the Lake Simcoe cottage. He loved spending time at a cottage having enjoyed summers over an almost 90 year period beginning in a lakeside cottage beginning at Lake Shuswap, then Nottawasaga Bay (Georgian Bay), Six Mile Channel and Lake Simcoe.

Lynn loved people, places, ideas and nature. ‘Pleasant’ was one of his favorite adjectives. His favorite songs were ‘Somewhere my Love’ and ‘La Vie en Rose.’ He was a positive, intelligent and loving man – a real gentleman and a true romantic guy.

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Judith Lawrence and Helen Kirkland (Friends)

Entered February 4, 2017 from Bracebridge Ontario

We met Lynn Gordon through Maryon's son Peter and his wife, Maria. We enjoyed many good conversations with Lynn when we visited with Peter and Maria. He was always courteous, gentle, and interesting. He will be missed.
Condolences to Maryon and his family,
Judith and Helen

Sandra Alexander (Cousin of Maryon Gordon)

Entered February 4, 2017 from Windsor, Ontario

I'm so sorry to hear of Lynn's passing. He was a lovely man who will be missed by many. My condolences to his family.

Maria & Dennis Guay (Friends)

Entered February 4, 2017 from Toronto, Canada

TO A LOVELY PERSON LYN GORDON,
I am very,very sad to learn that Lyn Gordon was passed away. He is a very nice and gentlemen who helped me and give me a ride to school with his grandaughter Gemma. My sincerest sympathy and condolence to the family of Marion. We lost a greatman but now he in heaven and no pain. I know he still looking for Marion wherever he iss now. I will include him in my prayer. Terri, Bruce & Gemma I am very very sorry for your lost. A great man is gone but his spirit will remain with us. Give my love to Marion and I will include all of you in my daily prayers. Take care Terri, Bruce, Gemma and Marion. Love and Care, Dennis & Mer

Lisa and Steve Alexander (Cousin to Bruce and Peter)

Entered February 5, 2017 from Guelph

Our deepest sympathies to Auntie Maryon, Bruce, Terri, Gemma, Peter, Maria and all of Lynn's family and friends. Our hearts are with you in this difficult time. What a lovely memorial you have posted here. We did not know Lynn well but he was clearly a kind and loving husband, father and friend.

With all our hearts,

Lisa and Steve

Farrah Gutierrez (Health and Wellness Manager at Delmanor Prince Edward)

Entered February 5, 2017 from Etobicoke

His smile and gentle soul will be missed.

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Terri Tinella (step daughter-in-law)

Entered February 11, 2017 from Etobicoke

A Tribute to Lynn Gordon – February 10, 2017

"When Lynn married Maryon, we knew that we were about to embark on a wonderful journey as a new expanded family. Their wedding day on August 30th, 1992 was truly a joyous day, as two lifelong friends became husband and wife. It was clear on that day that they had much in common and that they were very happy. But after nearly 25 years of marriage, it was absolutely clear that they were soul-mates, two peas in a pod, meant to be together. We loved the sight of them walking hand in hand everywhere they went, Lynn always protective of his bride - his devotion and chivalry knew no bounds.

There are so many adjectives that describe Lynn - genuine, selfless, generous, intelligent, curious, kind, supportive, patient, independent, thoughtful, caring. He was very proud of his family and of his country.

But one of Lynn's most admirable traits was his unflinching positivity and the gratitude that he expressed consistently in his daily life. Even in his last weeks as his body was failing him, he never complained. Rather his conversation turned to how lucky he was - to be in such pleasant surroundings, to be enjoying good meals, to have so many friendly and helpful people around him, to have people getting along, his wonderful family - and of course to have Maryon by his side. What a lesson we can all learn from Lynn. His legacy was not found in fame, fortune or in big moments. It was found in the simple moments of every day life and in the acts of kindness in every interaction that he had - every where and with every one. Sounds like our very own “George Bailey” and our own version of a wonderful life.

He was truly one of a kind and we will miss this gem of a gentleman!!"

Peter Barber (Step Son-in-law)

Entered February 14, 2017 from Bracebridge

While we had known Lynn Gordon all our lives as family friends, it was about 25 years ago when Lynn asked my mother to marry him and for us to become part of his family.
I remember asking my late brother Bob what he thought of the idea. His response came quickly - that he had only one problem with Lynn. He was too nice. He did not mean it in a nasty or derogatory way, but we both knew our lives would change with Lynn’s presence on the scene. He would raise the bar for everyone around him, including us.
He was always there to be supportive and to give kind words of encouragement, or to lend a hand with whatever chore had to be done. He led by example, and for the next 25 years, we watched as Lynn worked to change the lives of all around him, including me. He did this with a kindness in his nature that made everyone who met him honour his presence.
Now that he has passed, the world we know on this earth is a little colder and less friendly place. But we can feel better knowing that the heavens are a little nicer place with Lynn Marshall Gordon to lead the way. We will never be able to think of Lynn, without thinking of the man who was to nice.

Maria Duncalf-Barber (Step daughter-in-law)

Entered February 15, 2017 from Muskoka



LYNN MARSHALL GORDON– My Father in Law




In my 25 years since I have known my father in law Lynn Marshall Gordon, I have been gifted with a myriad of memories of dancing days and celebrations. We have spent high days and holidays with him and Maryon. The cottage at Simcoe, at their home for great dinners and evenings of Lynn showing us the exotic places in the world he has visited. Memories of them at our home in Muskoka for our summer party, going to see Peter sing in Barbershop, and spending New Year with us.




We cannot forget the trip to Italy for mine and Peter's tenth wedding anniversary - we spent it with them our in laws, how wonderful. Plus Maryon and Lynn visiting us five times in Florida and each time we picked them up at the airport they looked like young lovers still holding hands.




Lynn was Canadian through and through and I still cannot get over the fact he read the Globe and Mail for over 70 years, yes he loved Canada but also talked often of his Scottish roots however when he heard I had Irish roots he said to me ‘"It was a good thing his Scottish ancestors had had their blood distilled by the love of fine Irish women".




I had been in Canada for 6 months when I first introduced Lynn and Maryon to my mother when she came on her first visit to Canada. We were at the cottage at Simcoe sitting around the dining room table the evening breeze coming in the open window, the promise of one of Maryon’s succulent sunsets on the horizon. Peter and I were being on our best behavior wondering how it would go. I wanted with all of my heart for this wonderful trio to get on with each other. The dinner was great the wine was flowing and Lynn said in his inimitable way “Your daughter Maria is a great addition to Canada and the family and we are happy to have her here” I was happy and slightly embarrassed he was giving me a compliment that enabled my mother to put her mind at rest.




Some of the music being played that night was World War Two songs, and when Vera Lynn came on singing 'Well Meet Again', my mother, Maryon and Lynn spontaneously jumped up and started dancing around the room. It was a wonderful sight to behold the British and the Canadians bonding over wartime and Vera Lynn and music and at the same time letting my mother know her daughter was safe here as an immigrant and was loved by her partners family. That memory will stay with me forever as they laughed out loud and threw back their heads and while they linking arms they were forging real relationships that cannot be imitated or bought and that is priceless.




Lynn was a fine surrogate father to me, a kind and generous, considerate, polite, gentleman. He was witty and intelligent. A traveler, a wise man a man with values whom I could have spiritual chats with. He had a renaissance soul and he would sing songs to Maryon on Saturday nights at Simcoe when Peter and I would spend weekends in the summer, we all watched Lawrence Whelk together and enjoyed it. and we will miss him tremendously.




Lynn’s legacy is large as we have heard today. Hearing of his death I was very sad knowing there would be a gigantic void. I thought earnestly to myself - 'What is life, what is this journey we are all on. What is a man, what is the measure of a man, is it is stance on life or politics or how he loves his wife and family or how he also loves and welcomes strangers also, give a smile or banish a tear, was he ready with good cheer and a friend to all'.


What is the measure of a man - is it the money he makes or how he spends it, is it taking from people or giving back your time and energy to the community in which you live. Lynn certainly gave back to the community with a smile on his lips and a sparkle in his eyes.




He was always interested in what you were doing he would ask what’s new to get the conversation going and when we told him something that was different or a bit unusual he would shake his head in disbelief .




I said to him once over Christmas when we were leaving him, "I love you Lynn", his reply showed off his articulate vocabulary as he said with love, "Yes I too have an enormous warmth in my heart for you". He always said the right thing at the right time. Yes - Lynn a poet and a romantic - a fine man like a fine wine, he was authentic.




He was impeccably polite to everyone he met, which again shows the good measure of a man. I have a big family and Lynn has met 9 of my siblings, my lovely mother and aunt and numerous nieces and nephews and they all loved him and Maryon of course. When he was sick everyone in Liverpool, London and Ireland plus my colleagues and friends in Muskoka were praying for him. He made a kindly impression on all he met. Once met never forgotten.

Again the true measure of a man.




I have been left with many images of Lynn and the last time I saw him was at the hospital when we brought Maryon to visit. He was lying in bed with the biggest smile on his face and a twinkle in those historic wise eyes, eyes that have seen a war and every corner of the world on his travels, there was a smile on his lips and he was blowing kisses and winking to Maryon.




Lynn will leave traces of himself and his soul behind with the marvellous memories we can conjure up, like a smile, a sunset or a twinkle in his eye. We all have a bag of memories to keep close to our hearts and a million stories that we feel like millionaires just knowing him.





Lynn Marshall Gordon A man who was loved by many, a man who treated Prime Ministers and lay people alike with kindness and the giving freely of his time. He is a great loss to us all. Yes that is the great measure of a man.




My condolences to my lovely mother in law Maryon, Mike, Kate and Howie, Sean and family and all the Barber, Mohan family and to us all. May he rest in peace. xxx

FROM MARIA DUNCALF-BARBER
DAUGHTER IN LAW

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