In Celebration of

Kathleen Boyle Hatcher

January 19, 1952 -  February 26, 2021

It is with the greatest sadness that we announce the death of Kath, Kathy, Kathleen Boyle Hatcher, Devoted Mother, Magnificent Friend, Generous Soul, Brilliant Writer, Caring Teacher, Remarkable Quilter, Compassionate Listener, Constant Reader, Thrift Store Aficionado, Lover of all things Irish and, her most recent and most beloved role, Grandmother to Seamus.

Kathleen was born and raised in the Bronx, New York along with her two brothers John and David. She went on to study at Seton Hall University in New Jersey. She wrote for the campus literary magazine and developed a following as host of a weekly late night music program on WSOU, the campus radio station. Her university friendships were many and varied and she maintained them over time and distance with generosity and affection.

She raised her three children, Laura, Colin and Terence in Toronto and leaves behind people who loved her in both hemispheres, three countries, and many languages.

Kathleen was a respected member of the Toronto District School Board’s adult literacy program for over 20 years, where she provided thoughtful guidance and encouragement to people from around the world embarking on their learning journeys. She valued each person she worked with, never failing to see their potential and rejoicing in their successes. Kathleen loved sharing their stories of courage and resilience with us.

As a quilter, she demonstrated over and over that the scrappiest piece of fabric, if given a second glance, another chance, placed just so and handled with care not only fit in but brought its own beauty to her work and to our world. She helped us see beauty and colour in places, people and things we could easily walk by. And she loved to laugh. And said and wrote the funniest things.

She saw the best in us and because of that we were better people when with her. Now we must try to be better people without her.

A service will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to LOFT Community Services (https://www.loftcs.org) or Romero House (https://romerohouse.org).



Beannacht / A Blessing
By John O’Donohue

On the day when
the weight deadens
on your shoulders
and you stumble,
may the clay dance
to balance you.

And when your eyes
freeze behind
the grey window
and the ghost of loss
gets into you,
may a flock of colours,
indigo, red, green
and azure blue,
come to awaken in you
a meadow of delight.

When the canvas frays
in the currach of thought
and a stain of ocean
blackens beneath you,
may there come across the waters
a path of yellow moonlight
to bring you safely home.

May the nourishment of the earth be yours,
may the clarity of light be yours,
may the fluency of the ocean be yours,
may the protection of the ancestors be yours.

And so may a slow
wind work these words
of love around you,
an invisible cloak
to mind your life.

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Warren Haas 

Entered March 16, 2021 from Toronto

Kathy is a person I remember to be exceptionally warm and welcoming to everyone, including (loud) friends of her children who were guests in her home. (No matter how many times they played Mouse Trap on the dining room table.) It has been many years since I last saw her, but her warmth and dedication to those around her is not something that can be easily forgotten.

My sincerest condolences to you all for your loss.
-Warren

Leslie Nelson 

Entered March 16, 2021

“When someone you love dies, you lose them in pieces, over time, but you also get them back through what they cared about, what brought them joy, if you are lucky, you get little pierces back for the rest of your life”
I am so sorry this happened to your family, Laura. No one should have to go through this.
I will never forget your my mom.

Mary Roy 

Entered March 16, 2021

To Laura, Colin and Terence,

That is such a lovely tribute to your Mum.

I spent a lot of wonderful times with her, particularly when you were all at Creative Corner and Runnymede.

I last saw her in December 2019. We’d met for breakfast, and after, as always happened when we saw each other, we spent an hour talking in the parking lot, still having lots to say, still catching up. She was over the moon about her new grandson.

We always believe that there will be a “next time”, but sometimes life moves more swiftly than we can comprehend. I have lots of hilarious memories of times we spent together. I truly cherish those memories.

Love to you all.

Mary Roy

Susie Whelehan 

Entered March 16, 2021

Tomorrow I shall toast Kath with Bailey's and remember our time together in Ireland, our times together laughing, our times together on Evelyn Ave., our times together writing, our times together laughing, our times together celebrating birthdays, our times together at quilt shows, our times together at book launches, our times together laughing, and I will give thanks for this beautiful soul and all the beauty she brought to my life.

Margaret Makaltses 

Entered March 16, 2021

Kathleen will be greatly missed at the quilting guild. We will miss her beautiful smile.

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