In Celebration of

Irene Barbara Tárnyik

April 12, 1937 -  February 20, 2025

"The song has ended, but the melody lingers on." - Irving Berlin.

Barbara, affectionately known as Baba, peacefully passed away in her home on February 20th, 2025. By her side were her daughter and only child, Judith Demeter-Newbold, and her son-in-law, Bill Conforti providing immense love and comfort in her final days.

Baba was born on April 12th, 1937, in the small town of Dunakeszi, Hungary just 20 km from Budapest, bringing great joy to her gentle mother, Irén Tárnyik (Blatthnyi), and father, Ferenc Tárnyik. Joining their family 7 years later was Baba’s cherished younger sister, Marika Tarnyik (Novák). They are now all reunited together again in God’s Kingdom.

Barbara was, and remained, a stoic and willful woman enduring the hardships of World War II in Soviet Union-occupied Hungary right up to the age of 19 and her daring escape from her motherland during the 1956 Revolution. Her arduous and solo journey brought her to the new homeland of Canada. Her initial arrival was in Quebec but she settled in her beloved city of Toronto where she found dear friendships, exciting adventures, and life's freedoms and independence.

She went on to marry, raise her daughter, and work tirelessly in the Food & Beverage Industry as a Restaurant Manager until her retirement.

Baba's courageous heart and fighting spirit carried her through many of life's challenges including her recent cancer diagnosis, but in the end, she was at peace, ready to surrender, and she knew that this was not a solo journey.

Her love and respect for nature and Mother Earth made her a committed conservationist, never wasteful, and always considering how she could leave the earth with minimum negative impact.

She will be deeply missed by her Chestnut Pl. Condo community, her long-time Hungarian friends, her adored niece, Agnes Novák, her great-nephew, Balász Riger, and forever missed by her daughter, Judi.

A Celebration of Life of her will be arranged in the Spring and specific details will be posted later.

Guestbook 

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Gail Ellery (Friend)

Entered February 22, 2025 from Etobicoke

My dear Judi,

It was an honour to be considered Barbara’s friend and to spend many enjoyable hours with her. I always admired her strength and courage. Please accept our most sincere sympathies as you grieve her loss, but she is at peace, for which I am very grateful.

Love, Gail and Vince

Laura Kennedy (Friend)

Entered February 22, 2025 from Toronto

Dear Judi. My deepest sympathies on the loss of your mother. She was a brave, courageous and strong woman. May your cherished memories bring you strength now and in the time to come. I will miss seeing and chatting with your Mom but know that her suffering is over.
Big hugs to you Judi
Laura

Arlene Conforti (Friend)

Entered February 23, 2025 from Chicago, Illinois

Barbara was a sweet and pleasant lady. I’m sure that those who knew her will miss her gentle demeanor and think of her often. ❤️

Billy and Veronica Ocasio (Friend)

Entered February 23, 2025 from Chicago

We are so sorry to hear! Our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. May the Lord grant you peace and comfort that surpasses all understanding 🙏 With Lots of love, Billy and Veronica

Valerie Freberg (Friend)

Entered February 23, 2025 from Chicago

Judi,
Your mother got her wings on January 20th. We are both truly sorry for your incredible loss.
May you find Peace.
Love V & J

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