I will always remember my nephew, Ian, with love.
I enjoyed his quiet sense of humour.
I have many beautiful memories of Ian, including the times our two families spent together.
I was so saddened to hear of Ian’s passing. I have known Ian his entire life and he was always fun to be around. He had a good sense of humour and was always a great audience for me. He always listened intently and laughed at my jokes no matter how bad they were.
Ian, in spite of his epilepsy, always worked hard, quietly and diligently to achieve his goals and succeed in life.
I will miss his wit, conversation and thoughts.
Ian was a most impressive person. Life dealt him certain challenges that some people would have used as excuses not to succeed. He dealt with those challenges and was building a life that many would envy. When we look over the lake we will always think of Ian in every stage of his life that we were blessed to witness. Swimming, skiing and, especially, canoeing in his Tilley hat. He was part of the third generation on the bay and we knew him since before he was born. Ian will be missed.
I was deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Ian, and my heart goes out to Sandra, Don, Cynthia and the extended family.
As Cynthia's friend for going on 25 years, I have spent many days at the family's house and even at the cottage. Ian was always a welcome addition to our get-togethers. Even when he was quiet, it was obvious to me from his calm presence that he was genuinely interested in keeping up with Cynthia's life and that he cared about her and her friends. I can picture his voice and see his smile as he would insert funny remarks into the conversations. At the family cottage, he was up for playing cards and games, keeping up with the shared spirit of competition. I recall much laughter around the kitchen table playing "Nuts". And at Cynthia's wedding, I could tell he was secretly a very proud brother, helping to ensure Cynthia's special day was a success.
In some ways he felt like my sibling too, and he helped me feel like part of the family whenever we would all be together.
I always appreciated hearing from Cynthia how Ian was doing over the years, and about his successes in work and the more recent accomplishment of buying his own condo. Much to be proud of.
Ian will be missed and remembered well.
I cherished our extended family dinners, where Ian and his family were sometimes part of the gathering. Though soft-spoken, he had a way of adding something thoughtful to every conversation—often infused with his sharp wit and subtle humor. His smile was never forced; it was calm, genuine, and had a way of making you smile back without even realizing it.
Ian, you will be deeply missed.
John & Brenda