In Celebration of

Carol Beaven

May 8, 2021

also known as CAROL CREAM, died peacefully in her sleep at home on May 7, 2021 at the age of 84. She was predeceased by her parents Maise and William Beaven and her brother, Robert Beaven. She is survived by her two children, Evelyn Cream and Jocelyn Paris, sister-in-law Joyce Beaven, and nephews, Steve, Michael, Wayne Beaven. Carol was raised in Toronto, excelling in many academic areas with top marks in both English and Science, and later taught ballet and Grade 3. Upon marriage, she moved to Sarnia, Ontario to raise her family, met life-long friends, Norma, Irene, Bea, Joan, Sally, and Carol Anne. She returned to education, teaching English at Alexander McKenzie High School where she discovered a new skill - she was a good guidance counselor, helping students with academic goals and life challenges. Carol became a full-time guidance counselor at Sarnia high schools and Head of the Guidance Department at St. Clair Secondary School. She also oversaw guidance curriculum for Lambton County Board of Education. Her love of learning continued while raising a family and teaching, achieving a Bachelor of Arts degree from Western University, specializing in English, and a Masters of Education from Wayne State University. Carol joined the Sarnia Art Association, was President of the local chapter of the John Howard Society, and ran cinéSARNIA. Upon retirement, Carol returned to Toronto and had her dream retirement, attending arts performances every night of the week: TIFF Lightbox (3-5 times a week), theatre, concerts, and ballet. She greatly valued her wide circle of eclectic friends, meeting new people, and having discussions about a range of topics: politics, arts, philosophy. This circle was expanded through her love of travel with visits to the UK, Mexico, India, South America, Hong Kong. Donations can be made in her name to the Toronto International Film Festival, Stratford Festival and National Ballet of Canada. Celebration of her life will be held in Toronto and Sarnia post pandemic.


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Charmaine Kelegan (Care Giver PSW)

Entered May 10, 2021 from Toronto

Carol was such a nice person speak so softly she will be missed.

Jeffrey Poore (Friend of Jocelyn Paris)

Entered May 10, 2021 from Toronto

Hi Jocelyn,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother, of whom you spoke so lovingly. Remembering what you told me and reading her story it is clear what a wonderful and dynamic person she was.
All the best in your time of sadness,
-Jeff

Cameron Bailey 

Entered May 10, 2021 from Toronto

Thank you, Carol, for the passionate support you showed for cinema.
- Cameron

Andrea Picard (Acquaintance)

Entered May 10, 2021 from Toronto

For years, Carol was a friendly face in the audience when I was presenting films at the Toronto International Film Festival. She was a loyal patron, a curious and passionate one, whose insights on film and art and a wide range of topics inspired those around her. Her love of the arts is something we shared deeply. She will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends.

Andrew Proczek (Friend)

Entered May 11, 2021 from Toronto

Carol was indeed a unique and one of a kind human being. An avid reader she could be found reading her newspapers on her favorite bench at nearby Allen Gardens. Her senses were always attuned to the small things, the red berries on the bushes in her front garden, the birds chirping, the flowering trees across her street. She liked to guess or concoct stories about people she saw passing by on the sidewalk. People always sparked her imagination. Her mind was always working. Her sweet pleasure was a Tim Hortons Ice cap and Boston Cream donut. And guilt was not part of her vocabulary. She chose living over it.

Carol was a great supporter of the Arts, a very good listener and conversationalist. She was articulate and a good enunciator of words... a truly great debater, and a kind-hearted individual. I would not be able to repay all of the kindnesses she had offered me over the years. What was truly special about her and set her apart from most people was she was never condescending to anyone. Everyone who crossed her path was treated kindly without prejudice and with the same respect regardless of age, race, culture, sexual orientation or socioeconomic background. As a high school English teacher in Sarnia, Ontario she was beloved by her students. She interacted with them on their own level. If they rebelled or acted out with other teachers they could never do that with Carol without feeling ashamed afterwards. As a teacher and guidance counselor she helped them to realize their self-worth, gain self confidence and face up to their mistakes. It was pretty hard pulling the wool over her eyes. Carol never held back speaking her mind or telling the truth which must have ruffled more than a few feathers. Speaking to her you had to be honest and willing to engage. She always had time for people and perhaps this was her greatest gift and legacy.

Dearest Carol, I will miss seeing and discussing films with you, taking walks with you and accompanying you to the park. You will always remain in our hearts. R.I.P.

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