Carol was such a nice person speak so softly she will be missed.
Hi Jocelyn,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother, of whom you spoke so lovingly. Remembering what you told me and reading her story it is clear what a wonderful and dynamic person she was.
All the best in your time of sadness,
-Jeff
Thank you, Carol, for the passionate support you showed for cinema.
- Cameron
For years, Carol was a friendly face in the audience when I was presenting films at the Toronto International Film Festival. She was a loyal patron, a curious and passionate one, whose insights on film and art and a wide range of topics inspired those around her. Her love of the arts is something we shared deeply. She will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends.
Carol was indeed a unique and one of a kind human being. An avid reader she could be found reading her newspapers on her favorite bench at nearby Allen Gardens. Her senses were always attuned to the small things, the red berries on the bushes in her front garden, the birds chirping, the flowering trees across her street. She liked to guess or concoct stories about people she saw passing by on the sidewalk. People always sparked her imagination. Her mind was always working. Her sweet pleasure was a Tim Hortons Ice cap and Boston Cream donut. And guilt was not part of her vocabulary. She chose living over it.
Carol was a great supporter of the Arts, a very good listener and conversationalist. She was articulate and a good enunciator of words... a truly great debater, and a kind-hearted individual. I would not be able to repay all of the kindnesses she had offered me over the years. What was truly special about her and set her apart from most people was she was never condescending to anyone. Everyone who crossed her path was treated kindly without prejudice and with the same respect regardless of age, race, culture, sexual orientation or socioeconomic background. As a high school English teacher in Sarnia, Ontario she was beloved by her students. She interacted with them on their own level. If they rebelled or acted out with other teachers they could never do that with Carol without feeling ashamed afterwards. As a teacher and guidance counselor she helped them to realize their self-worth, gain self confidence and face up to their mistakes. It was pretty hard pulling the wool over her eyes. Carol never held back speaking her mind or telling the truth which must have ruffled more than a few feathers. Speaking to her you had to be honest and willing to engage. She always had time for people and perhaps this was her greatest gift and legacy.
Dearest Carol, I will miss seeing and discussing films with you, taking walks with you and accompanying you to the park. You will always remain in our hearts. R.I.P.