My aunt meant the world to me. She wasn’t just my aunt — she was like a second mom. She was someone consistent who I could turn to, visit, and laugh with, no matter what stage of life I was in.
She had the quickest wit. She was sharp, observant, and always one step ahead, often delivering a funny comment that caught you off guard and left you smiling long after. Auntie P ate well and exercised consistently. She always dressed nicely and took pride in herself. She also loved a good debate — and if you ever sat across from her, you knew she usually won. (soft smile) She challenged you to think, to defend your point, and she did it all with intelligence and humour. The older she got the stronger the debates. That’s how I remember her, through my lens.
She had a true willingness for adventure. She embraced life fully, right to the end — always curious, always interested in what fun was next. She showed me and the entire family that age never limits your spirit if you don’t let it.
What mattered most to her was people. She absolutely adored her friends and family. She paid attention, always asking about everyone, she remembered the details, and she made everyone feel seen and valued. Being in her presence made you feel important — because to her, you truly were. Wine Wednesdays and so many more activities were very much a real thing with her condo friends. And yes… she liked the younger good looking guys — and we all teased her about that. She took it in stride and loved every minute of it.
She loved her husband, Marshall, deeply, and she spoke of him often. There is comfort in knowing she is now reunited with him, along with many dear friends and family who went before her, and her beloved grandson, Matthew. That thought brings peace in the midst of the sadness.
I will miss her more than words can say. I will miss her voice, her expressions, her humour, and the quiet comfort of knowing she was always there. I am so grateful to have had her in my life, and I will carry our conversations, her laughter, and her love with me always.
Thank you all for being here today, for loving her, and for helping us honour a life that was truly well lived. xoxoxo
We will miss you Aunty Phyllis. We will always remember your sassiness, your kind and loving heart and your amazing love for life. Always in our hearts!!!
Rest in Peace xox
Rick, Yvonne, Meagan & Kyle
Cherish the good times. You sure have many with such a loving and kind Mom. It was fun when we all lived in Port Credit.
My sincere condolences to the family. I had the privilege of having Phyllis in my fitness classes at Huron Park many years ago, and she was truly an inspiration. She brought such positivity to each class. May she rest in peace.
Phylis was a beautiful lady, always loved been in her company She lived her life to the fullest , the way she wanted . She loved her family dearly :)) Gone but never forgotten xoxo