In Celebration of

Mary Elizabeth Hardie

November 5, 1920 -  September 13, 2018

Quietly, after a short illness, Mary passed away at Dorothy Ley Hospice in Toronto, in her ninety-eighth year. Beloved wife of the late Col. Robert Gellatly Hardie, and much loved mother of the late James (Barbara), Catherine and Peter (Brenda). Adored grandmother of five, and soon-to-be great-grandmother of one. Youngest daughter of Frances Violet Collier and James Gauldie, and sister to the late Donald Gauldie, the late Nancy Stewart and the late Winifred Scollard. Dear sister-in-law of the late Betty Hardie. Known as ‘Mimi’ to most, she was a keen reader, enthusiastic gardener, and completed cryptic crosswords well into her nineties. She and Bob, married for fifty-six years, made a wonderful team. Their life together was full of travel, good friends, and countless Sunday evening dinners with family, in the back garden and at the cottage. Mimi’s warmth and quiet wisdom endeared her to everyone she met; her absence will be felt not just by family, but by all the friends - young and old - who came to know her through the years. Thank you to all those who provided compassionate care to Mary in her final weeks. Friends are invited to join the family for a funeral service at 3:30 pm on Wednesday September 19th at St. George’s-on-the-Hill Anglican Church, 4600 Dundas St. W., Toronto.

The sadness of our loss is immeasurable, but we take comfort in the legacy of kindness and generosity Mary leaves. She was our most lovely Mimi, our one-of-a-kind, and a truly special soul.

“She lived for those she loved, and those she loved remember”.

Guestbook 

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ROSEMARY HARRISON (Regimental Family -The Lorne Scots.)

Entered September 17, 2018 from Georgetown

So saddened to hear Mary has passed. away. She was such a dear friend during our regimental years spent together. Always 'on parade' with a smiling face and so gracious to all. Time passes far too quickly and we don't see old friends as often as we would like.
Deepest sympathy from us both to all Mary's family.
Major John H. (Jack) Harrison and Rosemary Harrison...

Andy Attalai (family frined)

Entered September 17, 2018 from Toronto

I’m hard-pressed to adequately describe our connection to “Mimi,” as everyone called her, and to her husband Bob, who everyone called “Poppa.” Their oldest son Jim became my best and dearest friend in Toronto. He and I met in 1971, shortly after I arrived as an immigrant, and we remained bosom buddies until Jim died two years ago. Jim introduced my wife Christine and me to his parents, who realized that we had no family here in Canada, so they more or less adopted us, inviting us for Sunday dinner and the accompanying revelry at their house a coupe of times a month for the better part of thirty years thereafter. Christine and I remain forever grateful to them for taking in a couple of mutts like us, and then furthermore welcoming our children, others members of our family, and many of our friends to their house, repeatedly and with open arms and a ready glass of scotch or wine.

Mimi was a magnificent woman, calm and loving, but with a steely quality that she could reveal when necessary. She was truly a great, grand lady in the best sense of that term. Poppa would become our daughter Emily’s godfather, and Mimi became our son Matthew’s godmother.

Christine and I were better people for having known her. We loved her very much. May you rest in peace, Mimi, but stay out of the bar because Poppa and Jim are having a few drinks in there and it’s getting noisy, like it always did at your house on any given Sunday.

Nancy Rupprecht (Friend)

Entered September 18, 2018 from Murfreesboro, TN USA-

I have been thinking about Mimi, remembering the wonderfully gracious way she treated me, a total stranger, when Christine and Andy Attalai took me along with them on a visit to the Senior Hardies. Both of them were wonderful, making me feel welcome from the minute I came to their home that first time and, by the time we went home, treating me like a friend. Almost every subsequent visit to Toronto I saw them at one time or another—pool parties, great conversations and nothing mannered or phony about her--just genuine kindness. I am so glad I got to see her one last time in 2014 and know she remained the same wonderful woman she always had been.

Emily Attalai Kaare (Practically family)

Entered September 18, 2018 from Ishpeming

The world has lost an exceptional woman. Mimi was so kind and warm-hearted. I loved her like a grandmother. I have thousands of fond memories with her, and Poppa, that span through my whole life. She will be greatly missed, and never forgotten. I send my love and sympathies to the whole family. May she Rest In Peace. Xo

LCol And Mrs. Egan 

Entered September 18, 2018

We will miss such a gracious Lady.

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