In Celebration of

Jean Sheila McIlraith

January 9, 1929 -  August 23, 2022

On Tuesday August 23, 2022 Sheila "Nan" passed away peacefully at Etobicoke General Hospital Palliative Care Ward with family close by. She was 93 years old.

She was a loving wife and mother and a cherished grandmother "Nan" and great grandmother. She was predeceased by her late husband Dr. John McIlraith, brother Neil McArthur and granddaughter Adrienne Walpert. She leaves behind four loving children Maire (Franz), Julia, Angus (Maureen) and Ewen (Fiona) along with 7 grandchildren Rachel (Aaron), Yvette, Michelle, Fergus, Gaynor, Jack and Morgan and two great grandchildren Charlotte and Benjamin.

Sheila will be missed dearly by those who loved her and knew her during her life. She will be remembered for her kind spirit, generosity and her boundless energy and optimism.

Her many hobbies and interests included family ski trips to Alpine Ski Club and Mont-Sainte-Anne, sewing, knitting, cooking, gardening, appreciating the arts, entertaining, travelling and enjoying time at her beloved family cottage on Lake Scugog and her beautiful home in Toronto.

She will also be remembered as a dedicated Family Studies teacher starting in Woodstock and then at Central Peel SS. She always promoted education and lifelong learning and enjoyed lively discussions about books, history and politics.

Her volunteer activities are too many to list but include Humber Memorial Hospital Board of Governors and first woman president of the Hospital Board of Directors, founding member and Chairman of the Board for the Rexdale Community Information Directory, member and three time president of the Canadian Federation of University Women- Weston Branch, member of the Elmer Iseler Board of Directors and the Northern Etobicoke Community Action Board of Directors.

Adrienne sent a copy of this quote to her nan in 2008 saying "That's soooo you!"

" Special is the person who has lived well, laughed often and loved much, who has gained the respect of children, who has made the world better than they found it, who has never lacked appreciation for the earth's bounty, who never fails to look for the best in others or give the best of themselves."


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Maire Walpert (Daughter)

Entered August 26, 2022 from Sudbury, Ontario

Dear Mom,

Words cannot express the loss I feel now that you are gone. You will always be remembered in my heart for your truly wonderful spirit, dedication to your family, competence in everything you did and your everlasting love of life. I will always strive to carry forward all the lessons you taught me along with the values and morals you lived by every day. Missing you forever and always. Love Maire xoxox

Margo Kirk (Ness) (Cousins)

Entered August 26, 2022 from Halifax, Nova Scotia

Sheila held a very meaningful place in all our hearts. She and my mother (Mary Manson Ness) grew up as cousins as well as good friends. The relationship was especially meaningful after my dad died in 1986, and Sheila and Mom became travelling buddies.
A life very well lived.
God bless.

Julie Sajatovic (Friend of Rachel & family)

Entered August 26, 2022 from Sudbury

Rachel, Maire, Yvette, & Michelle,
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. Reading about Nan, seeing photos, and hearing memories from Rachel paint a picture of an incredibly kind and positive woman who left her mark on many. May you each take comfort in each other and the fond memories shared. Sending love & hugs ❤️

Ardis McArthur (Cousin)

Entered August 26, 2022 from Toronto

A wonderful woman.

John Kirk (relation by marriage)

Entered August 27, 2022 from Halifax

I only met Sheila on 3-4 occasions in my life (starting at our wedding in 1974), but was always impressed by her vitality, sense of humour, social conscience, and love of life. A tremendous mixture! I wish that I had known her better, since every time that I spent with her I was blown away by her energy and lively spirit. It was a pleasure to have spent time with her--even on so few occasions.

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