In Celebration of

Jacquelyn Rae Waller-Vintar

May 31, 1959 -  April 15, 2023

Jacquelyn Rae Waller-Vintar, age 63, passed away peacefully at Toronto General Hospital on April 15, 2023.

Jackie was born in Toronto, May 31st, 1959, daughter of Margaret Waller of Stratford and the late L. Ray Waller (2014). Beloved mother of Tessa, Graydon and Luka. Adored Nana to grandsons Aleks, Mika and Samy. Dear big sister to Heidi Holdsworth, Edward Waller (Sandra), and Juli Waller. Awesome Aunt Jackie to nieces and nephews Jay, Paige, Madeleine, Nicolas, Kevan, and Ashley.

Jackie had a true calling as a writer and editor since high school as editor of Ramblin’ On at Stratford Central Secondary School when she rallied the troops during late night publishing sessions in her father’s law office. From producing for CBC Radio and editing for the Oxford English Dictionary in England in the 1980s, to being Homes Editor at Toronto Life Magazine and Editor in Chief of Where Toronto Magazine until 2007. Jackie’s career took a turn and combined with another one of her passions when she became a writer and editor at camh - Centre for Addiction and Mental Health. As a lifelong advocate for mental health supports she found a niche where her talents truly excelled and she ended her career as Communications Coordinator of the Family Resource Centre at camh.

Her creativity was boundless and her attention to detail in all she did was tireless - rock tumbling, stained glass, silk painting, weaving, jewellery making as well as professional-level baking not to mention creating endless batches of fudge! One of her many legacies she will leave behind is the necessity to always be making something.

Jackie was a rock to family members and friends. She was diplomatic, fair, non-judgemental and could always be counted on to see both sides of a situation and give insightful advice. She was generous with her time - whether it was taking her amazing cookies to Sick Kids every Christmas or having coffee with a colleague in need of a shoulder. To everyone who knew her Jackie was compassionate, dedicated, protective and fiercely loyal. To her siblings she was a trailblazer who knew no limits, and was devoted, intuitive, inquisitive and quick to laugh. To her children she was all this and so much more. She encouraged their creativity in countless ways, always wanting to make every moment special for them from sprinkling reindeer dust on the snow to baking and ferrying them to dance classes, doing everything in her power to never say “no” when “yes” was possible.

Jackie was one-of-a-kind and we will miss her every day.

Friends are invited to a Memorial Gathering at Turner & Porter Yorke Chapel, 2357 Bloor St. W., Toronto (just east of Jane St.) on Wednesday May 31, 2023 from 2-4 p.m.

Donations may be made in Jackie’s name at give.camh.ca

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Stewart Gunyon (Cousin)

Entered April 21, 2023 from Hudson

Dear Waller Cousins,
I'm so sorry for this huge loss. Jackie was so easy to talk to and trust.
A real chip off the blocks of your parents.
God bless.
With love,
Stewart

Janay S-F (Mom Friend of Tessa)

Entered April 21, 2023 from Toronto, ON

My deepest condolences to you and your family Tessa.

Liz Mountain (Family friend)

Entered April 21, 2023 from Stratford

Dear Tessa, Graydon and Luka,

My heart goes out to all of you. No one can understand your personal pain, and no one can take it away from you. Some day, thoughts of your mom will bring you joy, but right now it will be tough. Please take the time you need to find that joy, as your aunt Heidi let me know that Jackie loved you deeply and would love to be remembered by you with joy rather than pain. Without your mom to soothe you, the journey will be difficult. Please take the time you need to heal.

Nadine Arseneault (Co-worker & friend)

Entered April 21, 2023 from New Brunswick

Jacquelyn was my boss/editor for many great years. She was quick to laugh and enjoyed daily chats about her family. Her family held the most precious place in her life. She will always be my favourite boss. My sincere sympathy to her children Tessa, Graydon & Luka. You will be in my thoughts. Love xxx

Zeyneb (My bestie’s Nana)

Entered April 21, 2023 from Toronto

Jackie was such a rock star. A rock for her family throughout generations and a star in everyone’s eyes. Her multidisciplinary passions, her values and sense of humour is how I will always remember her. We met a few times and I always was inspired to see a woman who was a mother and a grand-mother that not only has never lost her inner universe composed by arts, crafts, and mental health work, but also passed it on to her daughter that will be passing it to her boys. Her legacy is and will keep going to the future, making her presence prevailing through time.

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