While I didn't know Henry well, I sure enjoyed his company those times that we were together. He was a wonderful partner for Marilyn, and will be missed.
Henry was wonderful with the children and the staff were all keen to hy him learn English snd adjust to his new adventure i was a Physical therapist....i think the head of the department then. Sometimes he would come to my home for a visit snd dinner and my Dad was a big fan of Henry. He understood the challenges he faced in needing to learn the language and manage a job and starting life on his own. He wasn’t all that old at the time. Perhaps about 18. Hebrought the children to and from the therapy department but also during the lunch hour he would join other helpers in the gym to teach aspecially the boys who were all disabled how to play hocker
Henry was only about 18 and brought the children to the physio department for therapy. He would often join the other bus helpers and young boys to play hockey in the gym at noon hour. Everyone loved him! He used to talk about his sister a lot in those days. . Sometimes he would come home with me on a Friday for dinner with my family. My Dad especially
admired him as he understood the skill demands of Henrys trade yet recognized Henrys ambition for more education ( my Dad was a business executive who had to leave school after Grade 8, but continued to upgrade his education. (He became a Vice President of a large American Company in Canada so knew the value of education! Like Henry, he was a quiet man and a hard worker. Much later on, Marilyn, you and Henry invited my husband and me to your lovely home for a wonderful dinner. Henry had told us so much about you when you were going out together snd he was so happy. You were exactly the person he needed and I know you “put the icing on the cake “ for a long and full life for Henry. I lost Austin four years ago next week. It is so difficult to lose ones dearest Love after a lifetime together.( we met at 15 and went together from then until we married 7 1/2 years later!) I know how hard it is to be alone again after so many years as a couple, but its also wonderful to have that lifetime of memories to draw from as the years go by. Thak youvfor being his chosen love and allowedi him the oportunities to continue to grow and adapt to his chosen country. Its at least twenty or more years since I saw Henry at a SunnyView function. He was so happy and proud of you which made me happy to know that my old friend had a full and happy life in Canada. I alwsys thought of him as very brave to uproot himself from his family at such an early age and come to a new county all alone. That took real courage in my view.and while I’ve been adventuresome in my life, I certainly was never so courageous as Henry. I was happy to read that you had been overseas to visit his family i remember that he lost his sister much too young.
My best to you as you now search for and find that same sort of courage that Henry found so esrly in life. With that example you’ll be just fine but it does take time. i send you my Love, Strength, and Prayers as you go forward. Affectionately, Lois Fricker