In Celebration of

Felicia De Cotiis

November 13, 1932 -  January 28, 2018

Passed away peacefully in her sleep with her husband at her side on Sunday, January 28, 2018 at the age of 85. Beloved wife of 59 years to Saverio. Loving mother of Tony, Dina (Nick) Giorgi and Lia (Enzo) Schiavone. Proud grandmother of Annamaria (Giovanni), Nicholas, Gabriella, Francesca, Isabella, Alexander and Marcus. Survived by her brother and sisters, and numerous brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, relatives and friends. A sincere thank you to her caregivers Susanna, Perlita, Nenita, Fely, Beverley, Jamie, Shirley, Vastna and many others at CCAC. A special Thank you to Dr. Irene Hussian who cared for Felicia as her own for so many years.

Friends may call at the Turner & Porter "Peel" Chapel, 2180 Hurontario St., Mississauga (Hwy. 10, N. of QEW) on Thursday, from 2 – 4 & 6 – 9 p.m.

Funeral Mass will be held at St. Ambrose Roman Catholic Church, 782 Brown’s Line, Etobicoke on Friday, February 2, 2018 at 10 a.m. Entombment at Queen of Heaven Mausoleum.

In lieu of Flowers, for those who wish, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Society or to the Canadian Cancer Society. On-line condolences may be made through www.turnerporter.ca.

Guestbook 

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Perlita Francia (Caregiver)

Entered January 30, 2018 from Toronto ON

Eternal Rest Grant unto Her Oh Lord,May She Rest in Peace🙏🙏🙏

Maria grazia russo (Nipote)

Entered January 30, 2018 from Ordona Foggia italia

Ci uniamo con affetto a tutti voi di famiglia per la perdita della cara zia felicetta..sarà sempre nei nostri cuori.Ciao zia riposa in pace e veglia sulla tua famiglia e su tutti noi.😘😘😘😘

Fely Padua (Someone who cared...)

Entered January 30, 2018

God will take care of you "Ma" until you reached your destination. Shalom.

SUSANNA (Friend)

Entered January 30, 2018 from Finsbury Crescent

My deepest sympathy to Dina and family my dearest Bella you will be greatly missed your pain free you are in a better place thank you for accepting me for who I am you are selfless and most generous person I ever met thank you for everything you taught me I truly appreciate it I am so happy that our paths have crossed you are a gem I will cherish forever may the Lord give you peaceful rest in his paradise my true friend forever in my heart and always in my prayers take care God bless one love always peace and unity always sincerely Susanna

cathy Lane (friends)

Entered January 30, 2018 from oakville

Tony
Gina and I very sorry to hear about your mom, I know you and your family did everything you could to keep your mom safe and happy, she is at peace now and you have all those good memories of your mom to look back on and make yo smile. our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Love Cathy and Gina
xoxoxo

Life Stories 

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Tony, Dina & Lia De Cotiis (Daughter's & Son)

Entered February 1, 2018

For those who are fortunate enough to still be blessed by having your Mother with you, this is beautiful...For those who aren't... it is even more beautiful. It takes my breath!

The Journey of A Mother ~Helen Keller~
The young mother set her foot on the path of life. "Is this the long way?" she asked. And the guide said "Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it. But the end will be better than the beginning." But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything could be better than these years.

So she played with her children, she fed them and bathed them, and taught them how to tie their shoes and ride a bike and reminded them to feed the dog, and do their homework and brush their teeth. The sun shone on them and the young Mother cried, "Nothing will ever be lovelier than this."

Then the nights came, and the storms, and the path was sometimes dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and covered them with her arms, and the children said, "Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come."

And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children, "A little patience and we are there." So the children climbed, and as they climbed they learned to weather the storms. And with this, she gave them strength to face the world.

Year after year, she showed them compassion, understanding, hope, but most of all...unconditional love. And when they reached the top they said, "Mother, we would not have done it without you." The days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she became little and bent. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage. And the other, when she lay down at night, looked up at the stars and said, "This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned so much and are now passing these traits on to their children."
And when the way became rough for her, they lifted her, and gave her their strength, just as she had given them hers. One day they came to a hill, and beyond the hill, they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide. And mother said: "I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my children can walk with dignity and pride, with their heads held high, and so can their children after them. And the children said, "You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates." And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said: "We cannot see her, but she is with us still.

A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence." Your Mother is always with you. She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street, she's the smell of certain foods you remember, flowers you pick and perfume that she wore, she's the cool hand on your brow when you're not feeling well, she's your breath in the air on a cold winter's day. She is the sound of the rain that lulls you to sleep, the colors of a rainbow, she is Christmas morning.
Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop. A mother shows every emotion, .happiness, sadness, fear, jealousy, love, hate, anger, helplessness, excitement, joy, sorrow...and all the while, hoping and praying you will only know the good feelings in life.

She's the place you came from, your first home, and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love, your first friend, even your first enemy, but nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not pace...not even death!

MAY WE NEVER TAKE OUR MOTHERS FOR GRANTED.

"The best and most beautiful things cannot be seen or touched - they must be felt with the heart."

Lia De Cotiis (Daughter)

Entered February 3, 2018 from Italy

Cara Mamma,
In una gelida notte di gennaio, te ne sei andata nel buio della notte, in silenzio senza disturbare nessuno.
Da lontano, mi ero sempre promessa che non sarei venuta al funerale per piangere sulla tua tomba perche' mi ero goduta il tuo affetto ogni volta che ho avuto il tempo per venire a trovarti. Invece proprio perche' non hai ricevuto il mio ultimo abbraccio, ho attraversato l'oceano e sono venuta a darti il mio ultimo saluto, insieme a tutta questa bella gente che oggi e' qui presente perche' tu cara mamma hai dato sempre il meglio di te.
Donna semplice ed esemplare che ha dedicato tutta la sua vita al bene della famiglia partecipando attivamente alla vita parrocchiale di questa chiesa dove con la sua voce melodica faceva si che la S. Messa diventasse ancora piu' solenne.
Sei stata la roccia forte della famiglia e oggi siamo tutti qui presenti per dirti GRAZIE e arrivederci, non addio!
Oggi hai terminato il tuo cammino terreno, ti resta solo una cosa da fare: pregare per noi da lassu' , insieme alla nostra Mamma Celeste e Gesu' e la Madonna di Valleverde e Padre Pio di cui eri molto devota e ci hai insegnato ad amare con fede. Ti porteremo sempre nel cuore cara mamma.....riposa in pace Amen.

Dina Giorgi (Daughter)

Entered February 3, 2018 from Nobleton, Ontario

Eulogy
We are gathered here today to celebrate the life of our mother, Felicia.

My sister will be saying a few words in Italian and then, I will be saying a few words in English.

" The best and most beautiful things cannot be seen or touched - they must be felt with the heart."

Our Mother was an exceptional mother and teacher.

She was a faithful servant of Christ and taught us Christian values.

She showed us compassion, understanding, hope and most of all, unconditional love.

She taught us to weather the storms and gave us strength to face the world. She was our rock.

When she became ill, I was told to prepare myself as one day she would no longer call me by name. My Mother taught me to always have faith and so I would constantly remind myself of a verse in Isaiah 49:16 where it says, "I have carved you in the palm of my hand, you are mine and I will never forget you." This was a daily reminder that my Mother would never forget her children. After all, she was the place we came from, our first home.

She called her children by name until the day she flew away to heaven to be in the arms of our Lord.

Caring for her was the hardest job I've ever had however; I am grateful that I had that precious time with her as she taught me patience, courage and most of all, faith.

I would like to share with you a poem which describes the last chapter of our Mother's journey.

It's called, "Two Mothers Remembered." by Joann Snow Duncanson.

I had two Mothers - two Mothers I claim
Two different people, yet with the same name.
Two separate women, diverse by design.
But I loved them both because they were mine.
The first was the Mother who carried me here,
Gave birth and nurtured and launched my career.
She was the one whose features I bear,
Complete with the facial expressions I wear.
She gave me her love, which follow me yet,
Along with the examples in life that she set.
As I got older, she somehow younger grew,
And we'd laugh as just Mothers and daughters should do.
But then came the time that her mind clouded so,
And I sensed that the Mother I knew would soon go.
So quickly she changed and turned into the other,
A stranger who dressed in the clothes of my Mother.
Oh, she looked the same, at least at arm's length.
But now she was the child and I was her strength.
We'd come full circle, we women three,
My Mother the first, the second and me.
And if my own children should come to a day,
When a new Mother comes and the old goes away,
I'd ask of them nothing that I didn't do.
Love both your Mothers as both have loved you.

A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence.

Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop. A Mother shows every emotion and all the while, hoping and praying you will only know the good feelings in life.

She's your first love, your first friend, even your first enemy, but nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space... not even death!

Mom, we have loved you in life, your memory will always be alive in our hearts, and we pray that one day, we will be reunited in heaven.

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