In Celebration of

Dale Vivian Finlay

April 12, 1940 -  February 10, 2026

Passed away peacefully in her sleep on Tuesday, February 10, 2026, at the age of 85.

Born to Norman and Clara Kinsman (née Stannard), Dale was the devoted wife and best friend of John Finlay and a proud mother to Jennifer Anderson (Chris), Paul (Caroline), and John Jr. (Linda). She cherished her grandchildren Tyler Finlay, Justin Anderson, Matthew Anderson, and Christopher Anderson who brought her immense joy.

Dale was one of five daughters and shared a lifelong bond with her sisters: Clare Harris (Jack), Gail McGarrell (the late Tom), the late Bernice Jordan (the late Pat), and Doreen McAleer (Bill). Together they shared friendship, laughter, travel, and a deep commitment to family. Her brother-in-law, Father Donald Finlay Deceased, was also a cherished presence in her life. She is lovingly remembered by many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews.

Dale was strong, selfless, and quietly steadfast. She placed others before herself without hesitation and found her greatest happiness in caring for her family. She valued tradition and the rituals that brought everyone together. Nothing pleased her more than seeing those she loved gathered in one room, a table thoughtfully set, and conversation flowing across generations.

She joined the Women's Auxiliary in 1991 and became a Life Member after ten years of dedicated service. For 25 years, she volunteered at the 5Fifty5 Shop at SickKids alongside her sisters, helping families and young patients find comfort in small but meaningful ways. Her kindness was constant and deeply felt.

In her final days, she faced life with courage and faith, reassuring those she loved that "this is the right order" and that they would be okay.

She will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Funeral Mass will be held at St. Clement Roman Catholic Church, 409 Markland Dr., Etobicoke, at 11a.m. on Saturday, February 21, 2026.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Dorothy Ley Hospice (www.dlhospice.org).

On-line condolences may be made at www.turnerporter.ca

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Bruce Houser (Long Time Friend)

Entered February 13, 2026 from Stouffville Ont

Very Sorry

Tim and Cherie Wolochatiuk 

Entered February 13, 2026

Our sincere condolences to Paul the rest of his family.

Anthony Anderson (Brother of her son in law)

Entered February 13, 2026 from Ottawa

Jennifer, Chris and family. Please accept our sincere condolences. Your mother was such a kind and generous person.

Love Lise & Anthony

Sandra belvedere (My daughter grew up best friends with Jennifer)

Entered February 14, 2026 from Hollywood Florida

The beautiful words you all compiled to describe your mother would be something every mother would receive joy in reading. Where ever she is I hope she feels your love.. Sorry for your pain. Deepest sympathy sandra belvedere

Gerry Marlborough (Longtime friend)

Entered February 14, 2026 from Etobicoke

Our sincere condolences from Mo and I on the death of your wife of so many years John. We go back so many years from our days on Russett and Dufferin when we were just kids. While we have not met in years and years I still have memories of our times together so long ago. Mo used to ski with Dale when our kids were young.
I think we must have been away when Don died as I have no memory of the funeral and running into you and Dale then.
We are in Mexico so will not be present at the funeral .
We hope you have lots of good memories of your years together to carry you through this painful time.

Gerry and Mo (Maureen)

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