One of my favourite moments with Christine was when we went to the Blue Rodeo concert with Jane, Norri and Denise. It was at Massy Hall and the audience was unbelievably conservative. Chris and I wanted to get up and dance so we went to the back. Even being out of everyone’s way, we still managed to get into trouble. The security guard came to ‘talk’ to us. We looked at each other (and you can just imagine Chris’ face!) and mouthing “what the f_____” and then looked back at the security guard, and in unison said “Are you serious? This is a concert”. He was actually very sympathetic. Anyways (as Chris would say) I don’t know how many glares we got that night, but that ridiculousness just brought us together. And we felt completely vindicated when, in the 2nd last song of the night, Blue Rodeo had pointed out to the audience at how quiet they were and they should be dancing. That one girl that kept glaring and complaining disappeared after that. OMG that just got Chris going. Man did we have a good laugh.
Chris and I’ve known each other a long time. Met at MumNet and then again when our boys, Aidan and Jayden started school. But we really became close when we found a mutual love in gardening and our friend Taryn.
This past week, in particular, I have thought of nothing else but my friend Christine. I have so many fond memories. It actually surprised me and warmed my heart to know I have them – between gardening shows, mani/pedis, baseball, hockey, parties, talks, shopping, Chicago, the list could go on. And every moment I spent with her showed me her love for life, her integrity, her genuine spirit.
Chris loved the outdoors, we enjoyed many walks and bike rides. She had a wonderful sense of style. And boy did she love her red wine! She introduced me to many great things, including McMannis! And she loved her friends. Her friendships were so important to her – always there for them, always loyal to them.
She was an awesome, dedicated mother - always advocating for her children. Who always attended every game and school activity. Chris loved watching Aidan play baseball and hockey. And seeing James, the wonderful man he has become, just confirms her devotion to her children.
She taught me so much and even in frustrations and challenges, I couldn’t help but feel warm and comforted by her. Christine’s influence on me was enormous even through her illness. Through it all, her strength was profound – always putting her children first and living for the day.
Christine was a woman of integrity, who stayed true to herself right to the end. She didn’t do things to please others but only to be true to what she believed. She understood that her physical being did not define her as a person – that it was her heart and her mind.
Christine was always full of life and laughter. She was a remarkable woman, mother, wife and friend.
I miss my friend