In Celebration of

Alain Mischa Heese-Boutin

November 23, 1984 -  April 3, 2024

Alain Mischa Heese-Boutin experienced serious mental health challenges for many years and chose to end his suffering last Wednesday, April 3rd at the age of 39.

Alain was born at Women’s College Hospital in Toronto on November 23, 1984. He showed his affectionate and caring nature immediately and loved to cuddle with his parents and his older brother Dietrich. He was dedicated at Toronto United Mennonite Church in May 1985.

An artist at heart, Alain honed his skills at the Art Gallery of Ontario and pursued animation at Max the Mutt, finding work at Keyframe Digital Productions in St. Catharines, Ontario. He contributed to the animated series Pinky Dinky Doo.

Back in Toronto, Alain worked at Dufferin Grove Park, while also nurturing his lifelong passion for bicycles. He rode everywhere including one solo trip to Ottawa and bike adventures in Europe. He volunteered at Bike Pirates and worked as a bike mechanic most notably at Curbside Cycle. He set up a bicycle workshop at home, and helped many friends and family keep their bicycles in good shape. Alain continued to share his prolific creativity through Aether Suggested where he posted his art, board game ideas, and bicycle designs.

Alain's life was marked by his caring nature and dedication to sustainability. He is survived by his fur child Chopingnon (aka Enoki), his parents Marie-Carmelle Boutin and Edward Heese, his brother Dietrich Heese-Boutin (Holly McLellan), his sister Claire-Hélène Heese-Boutin (Giselle Johnston), his niece Zhada Heese-Boutin and nephew Felix Heese-Boutin. His legacy lives on in each of us who was touched by this gentle soul.

For those who wish to view the service, it will be livestreamed on zoom:

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84323853903?pwd=Q0hpWlkwcVFWOW9FbTIxRDhKRFkydz09

Meeting ID: 843 2385 3903, Passcode: 1774

Guestbook 

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Jeff Weingarten (Friend)

Entered April 9, 2024 from Guelph

Alain was a very good person and a really kind guy. He used to go biking with me and Dave Knox a lot, and I saw him pretty regularly throughout my 20s. When I moved away for school, we fell out of touch, but we said hello from time to time on Facebook. Alain was always a calming presence and an easy person to talk to, laugh with, and enjoy. He was a very warm, lovely person. I'm so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

Dave Champagne (Friend of Claire-Helen)

Entered April 9, 2024 from Oshawa

Mes sympathie à toi Claire-Helen et toute ta famille!

Marie Carline Merius (Friends/ like family)

Entered April 9, 2024 from Scarborough, Ontario

Hello everyone,
I am pleased to inform that I knew Alain at the age of six years. His parents brought me to Canada to babisit his older brother, him and his little sister.
They welcomed me and treated me like family.
Alain, you will be missed by all who knew you.
Once again my condolences to your family,

Marie carline.

Shah (Family)

Entered April 9, 2024 from Atlanta

Alain,
You are the closest thing I have to a brother and the permanence of this tragedy has not sunk in. I hope it never does. You have always been the most caring friend I have. You are selfless, loyal, and you care for me unconditionally. It is not fair that you suffered. How can it be, that someone with a soul as pure and as generous as yours was forced to suffer.

When we were kids you always looked out for me. You always supported me. You always wanted the best for me and did whatever you could to help me achieve it. I only realize now, that your care for me allowed me to take risks and push boundaries and succeed in a way I never could have without you. I believed in myself more because myself was backed up by you.

You would be down for trips to New York and Montreal on a moments notice. I should be grateful that our time together provided me with a lifetime of joyous memories to cherish.

You remained steadfast in supporting and encouraging me into adulthood. You’d always be one of the first to celebrate my new releases. You’d buy all my songs. You are the greatest friend Alain. You were one of the only people I would confide in. You would boost me when you knew I was low. Less than 4 weeks ago you were uplifting me.

Alain I’m so sorry I didn’t know the extent to which you were suffering. All I can feel right now is pure and utter sadness thinking about how you must have felt. At least the suffering is over, but that is of little solace now.

Currently life feels like a horror movie. Everyday I wake up and for a split second I think it was just a nightmare. And then reality horrifically sets in.

Alain, my brother, I will proudly keep you in my heart until the end of time. I will relive my memories with you vividly, and often. You will live on through us now.
Love you my bro

Diane Buchanan & Gwilym Eades (Cousin)

Entered April 10, 2024 from Bracknell, UK

Deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

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